[Daffodil]

When plain women are friendly and fun they are 'a good laugh' or 'one of the lads'. But when a beautiful woman is friendly and fun she is 'flirting'. Surely this reflects the desires of males, and the jealousy of females?
Discuss :-)

[30stone]

Of course, and im guessing this is related to sara to?

As yeh shes flirty so you know she must be a complete slut, but thats mostly the darnell fans.

[Lauren]

I think there's a distinction between having a "good laugh" and being "one of the lads". Beautiful women can, and do, have a good laugh without being accused of flirting.

....Take myself for example.
(LOL, I'm kidding).

[bananarama]

Any extrovert male or female will flirt. It is natural for both to do so and should never be used as a reason to put a label on some ones behavour.......When men flirt they are one of the lads but if a woman does then by some strange two faced logic she should be called a slut or worse.....State of the nation....

[BBkid]

Originally posted by bananarama
Any extrovert male or female will flirt. It is natural for both to do so and should never be used as a reason to put a label on some ones behavour.......When men flirt they are one of the lads but if a woman does then by some strange two faced logic she should be called a slut or worse.....State of the nation....

Correct.

[Jackie]

Originally posted by bananarama
Any extrovert male or female will flirt. It is natural for both to do so and should never be used as a reason to put a label on some ones behavour.......When men flirt they are one of the lads but if a woman does then by some strange two faced logic she should be called a slut or worse.....State of the nation....

Yes i agree its always been like this and will never change.

[ange7]

I don't think that if a plain girl flirts she's one of the lads .. but either way it's harmless fun ... it's an ego boost and if one thinks there's more going on than the other then why should the other person be blamed. I think it takes some emotional maturity but some guys need to simplify there lives by sorting women into one of two categories angel / ***** ... that Sara V Darnell thing was a car crash and Darnell didn't buckel up ( god no I didn't just type that! hehe)

[hanny08]

Ok, so I in no way agree with what Darnel said to Sara, in fact I think it was disgusting, but I think she over does the flirting. She can't see why he was upset(he still shouldn't have gotten that angry and said what he did)but she did completely lead him on. She was always hugging him and saying he was her top guy. He started to believe that she really liked him and instead of doing the mature thing, taking him to one side and telling him as much as she liked him she doesn't like him in that way, she jumped out of his bed claiming he was 'freaking her out' and saying she wouldn't sleep in a bed with him as he'd 'try and have sex with her'. These things were all done in front of other housemates and Darnel must have felt awful because of it. Again I'd like to stress that I don't condone his behaviour, he too could have handled his feelings in a much more mature way.

[ange7]

Originally posted by hanny08
Ok, so I in no way agree with what Darnel said to Sara, in fact I think it was disgusting, but I think she over does the flirting. She can't see why he was upset(he still shouldn't have gotten that angry and said what he did)but she did completely lead him on. She was always hugging him and saying he was her top guy. He started to believe that she really liked him and instead of doing the mature thing, taking him to one side and telling him as much as she liked him she doesn't like him in that way, she jumped out of his bed claiming he was 'freaking her out' and saying she wouldn't sleep in a bed with him as he'd 'try and have sex with her'. These things were all done in front of other housemates and Darnel must have felt awful because of it. Again I'd like to stress that I don't condone his behaviour, he too could have handled his feelings in a much more mature way.

He wasn't the first guys she flirted with.. he knew that,, but he tried to take it up a notch and she wasn't up for it. The stuff he came up with was wild ie Sara says oh I've finished my banana so Darnel say's " you can have a bite of my banana" and sticks it in her face. The other one was when they were wrestling in the bedroom and Darnell presses his knee between her legs and keeps it there despite Sara saying she wasn't OK with it. He lost the plot and had he gotten into bed with Sara he so would have had a go. After that it was all Darnells hurt pride and weeks of bullying with Rex and Mo as wing men. Nasty stuff.

[jonsep]

if sara wasnt leading him on why would she allow him to press his
erect penis up against him.
or morning glory as darnell says.
if it was just flirting then sara needs some lessons on it
and quick.

[GiRTh]

Originally posted by jonsep
if sara wasnt leading him on why would she allow him to press his
erect penis up against him.
or morning glory as darnell says.
if it was just flirting then sara needs some lessons on it
and quick.

Exactly. She knows what she was doing to him but she didn't realise he'd take it so personally.

LOL@Morning Glory.

[SexualHeroics]

Flirting is flirting, it's all pretty innocent.

Being a sex tease is a different thing altogether.

[ange7]

Originally posted by jonsep
if sara wasnt leading him on why would she allow him to press his
erect penis up against him.
or morning glory as darnell says.
if it was just flirting then sara needs some lessons on it
and quick.

like I said she made it clear she wasn't OK with it when Darnell pressed his knee against her.

Originally posted by SexualHeroics"Being a sex tease is a different thing altogether."

what? that's just your code for ***** .. we've all worked you out SexH .. I guess every second person you meet is one in your eyes.

[SexualHeroics]

Originally posted by ange7

what? that's just your code for *****

Whoaaa, great argument.

That's like me saying all your posts are code for "look how stupid I am".

(except mine would have some truth to it)