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Old 05-12-2007, 08:26 PM #1
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My Friend Fancies This Person Of Her Own Gender..

But The Person She Fancies Is Straight..

My friend knows this person is straight.. but still wants to win her over..

I keep telling her that shes straight and she will never fancy you..

but she doesnt listen..

Any Sugestions..

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not really much else can be done
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That's a difficult situation. Time is a great healer though. You should try and cheer your friend (who fancies the girl) up, and maybe take her out places so she can meet new people and perhaps find someone new. It's not an ideal situation and will take time, as I said, but when you're young you do tend to like different people, so that could well be the case for your friend. I hope it all goes well - you could give us an update and let us know.
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That's a difficult situation. Time is a great healer though. You should try and cheer your friend (who fancies the girl) up, and maybe take her out places so she can meet new people and perhaps find someone new. It's not an ideal situation and will take time, as I said, but when you're young you do tend to like different people, so that could well be the case for your friend. I hope it all goes well - you could give us an update and let us know.
Thanks =]

She says shes not sure abiout what she likes..

i will try that..

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she will get over her in the end
Im not being mean,sorry if it sounds like that but she will,in time and then she`ll look back and think-what was all the fuss over
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Conor, something tells me that this "friend" is a lot closer than you are letting on.. but anyhoo, i had this situation last year and i even made a thread like this too! And i just told the guy, and him being the great guy he is, didnt mind and was okay with it. We are still great friends =D But if this is a person who is sensitive to gays (or in your case, lesbians) then maybe they shouldnt find out.
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Conor, something tells me that this "friend" is a lot closer than you are letting on.. but anyhoo, i had this situation last year and i even made a thread like this too! And i just told the guy, and him being the great guy he is, didnt mind and was okay with it. We are still great friends =D But if this is a person who is sensitive to gays (or in your case, lesbians) then maybe they shouldnt find out.
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Ummmmmmm just forget it, move on, tell her to move on, dont let her make a fool of herself. I would hate that to happen to a friend.
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Ummmmmmm just forget it, move on, tell her to move on, dont let her make a fool of herself. I would hate that to happen to a friend.
thats Mean..
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Is it o sorry i dident mean for it to sound mean. Its just you know if she is straight and your friend tries something with her she could really get hurt.Then rumors and all sorts could be started you know. I wasent being rude sorry if it sounded it.
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Is it o sorry i dident mean for it to sound mean. Its just you know if she is straight and your friend tries something with her she could really get hurt.Then rumors and all sorts could be started you know. I wasent being rude sorry if it sounded it.
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I'm straight and I have been fancied by a gay man, that was really embarrasing. Everything he was doing was in order to get me in his bed, my friends told me the situation and I was like "but I don't want him, I'm not gay". I had to told him that nothing will happen, I was quite harsh with him because I had no solutions. He understood very well, he asked me if we could be friends, I said "no sorry, you will always think about it, it's nothing against you".

This is a hard situation, now Conzors, you know what does it feel to be fancied by a gay person if you are straight.
I guess your friend needs to understand before the straight one will talk to her.
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Get the straight friend drunk and hit em' when their down. Thats what I usually do.













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Ha ha ha stu, back to the topic though. This is a hard one as your friend isnt being true to themselves if they dont tell the other persons there true feelings but at the same time if ther person is straight then you do need to make sure that your friend stays away as bith heads will end up getting mashed.................
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Ha ha ha stu, back to the topic though
That was on topic! It was honest advice! Classic tactic for an L.B.G.T person. Men tend to get more intamate with themselves when they are tanked up.
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