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View Poll Results: Is there any such thing as exclusive heterosexuality?
Yes - we live in a heteronormative society for a reason 1 10.00%
Yes - we live in a heteronormative society for a reason
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Yeah but a lot less people than is currently assumed fit into that category 3 30.00%
Yeah but a lot less people than is currently assumed fit into that category
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No - everyone’s at least a little bisexual 2 20.00%
No - everyone’s at least a little bisexual
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Old 16-10-2020, 08:51 AM #1
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Default Is there any such thing as exclusive heterosexuality?

Or is everyone bisexual to a certain extent (however tiny)?

Probably not the most fitting choice for a morning thread but I work nights so I’m screwed anyway.
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I dunno, i mean i can appreciate a good looking bloke, but isn't it whether you'd actually wanna act upon it?
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I can consider another man attractive without wanting to sleep with him.
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Meh. Experimenting in uni or having a "mancrush" doesn't necessarily mean someone is anything but straight. What's with the need to label everything ?
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Yes.

It’s ridiculous when lgbt people say everyone is bi. They clearly are not at all... the majority of people have no interest in the same gender


I voted the top description but not a fan of the description it was the only yes option that doesn’t state that everyone is somehow gay/bi without realising it themselves

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There are more sexualities than just straight, gay and bi. I think our sexualities are personal to us and yeah, some people might teeter between straight and bi or whatever but a lot of people don't.
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You could never say because you don't truly know what people think unless they tell you.

Yes there are married man who are closeted and sleep with guys but that doesn't mean they all do, definitely not. I mean if you're applying this to men then why not woman? Although they're less likely than men to sleep with the same sex (IMO) I definitely don't think all women desire a bit of muff now and again.
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i am straight, i think i know this because i am more attracted to women

however i can still say if a man looks good
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There are more sexualities than just straight, gay and bi. I think our sexualities are personal to us and yeah, some people might teeter between straight and bi or whatever but a lot of people don't.
How?

You either like the same sex, opposite, or both. How can there be more?
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How?

You either like the same sex, opposite, or both. How can there be more?
What about asexuals? What about people who date non-binary or intersex people?
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You sure about that Smithy?
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What about asexuals? What about people who date non-binary or intersex people?
Asexual are non-sexual, it's like saying crisps are a type of brick.

"non-binary" people are still male or female, and will attract people who are attracted to the sex they actually are. Same with intersex - they still appear to be male or female, and will attract people accordingly .
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Asexual are non-sexual, it's like saying crisps are a type of brick.

"non-binary" people are still male or female, and will attract people who are attracted to the sex they actually are. Same with intersex - they still appear to be male or female, and will attract people accordingly .
Just forget I said anything.
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Nah, stuff like that is pretty hard to forget
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You could never say because you don't truly know what people think unless they tell you.

Yes there are married man who are closeted and sleep with guys but that doesn't mean they all do, definitely not. I mean if you're applying this to men then why not woman? Although they're less likely than men to sleep with the same sex (IMO) I definitely don't think all women desire a bit of muff now and again.
Did I say only men though?
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i do not know what asexual, non-binary, intersex is, i don't mean to be rude or anything, just do not understand it
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Depends what the scale looks like, appreciating that someone is good looking/attractive, I'm sure everyone can do (whether they would admit it or not)
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i do not know what asexual, non-binary, intersex is, i don't mean to be rude or anything, just do not understand it
Asexual = not attracted to anyone
Nonbinary = a male or female who thinks he or she is neither
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Sexuality is extremely fluid and there’s probably one person out there that’s never ever be attracted to a guy but most men have that ONE person or more that they’d ‘turn gay’ for. I wish we lived in a society that didn’t enforce toxic masculinity onto people that they have to downplay their attraction to everyone that isn’t a cis woman. I’m not going to speak on the sexuality of women for obvious reasons but I’ve heard similar things
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Asexual = not attracted to anyone
Nonbinary = a male or female who thinks he or she is neither
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Or if you want the actual definitions rather than Oliver telling other people how they identify.

Asexuality isn’t about not being attracted to someone, it is not having sexual feelings towards individuals.

Nonbinary is someone who doesn’t identify as either gender, they would use They/Them pronouns.

Intersex is a general term used for a variety of conditions in which a person is born with a reproductive or sexual anatomy that doesn't seem to fit the typical definitions of female or male. For example, a person might be born appearing to be female on the outside, but having mostly male-typical anatomy on the inside.
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Or if you want the actual definitions rather than Oliver telling other people how they identify.

Asexuality isn’t about not being attracted to someone, it is not having sexual feelings towards individuals.

Nonbinary is someone who doesn’t identify as either gender, they would use They/Them pronouns.

Intersex is a general term used for a variety of conditions in which a person is born with a reproductive or sexual anatomy that doesn't seem to fit the typical definitions of female or male. For example, a person might be born appearing to be female on the outside, but having mostly male-typical anatomy on the inside.
Sure but mine is snappier
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Ooopps .. I always thought you were female ( avatar) .. interesting.


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And completely dismissive of other people’s struggles and discriminatory towards non binary people.
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