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Oliver_W · 15-01-2021, 06:52 PM

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Originally Posted by AnnieK

Oliver, what does it matter to you what other people refer to themselves as? In the not too distant past people who referred to themselves as gay as you do, were mocked and derided. Civilisation has moved on and embraces gay people much more freely now....so why are you so adverse to allowing another minority to identify as pansexual?

People can call themselves whatever they like, it's up to them. Doesn't make it valid, nor does it mean every "identity" should be acknowledged. Pansexual is the same as bisexual, so it has no reason to exist. Should people be allowed to call themselves it? Sure. Should it have any place outside of their head? nope.

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Originally Posted by Barry.

You just prove the point that you are talking ****e, thanks

Nah.

Jake. · 15-01-2021, 06:57 PM

I just... don’t get why you’d care other than to be purposely difficult

Why does it matter to you what people choose to identify as? What is it that makes it invalid? You saying so?

Oliver_W · 15-01-2021, 07:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Jake.

I just... don’t get why you’d care other than to be purposely difficult

Why does it matter to you what people choose to identify as? What is it that makes it invalid? You saying so?

It doesn't matter to me, but it's still not valid. Not due to my say-so, but because there are only two sexes that someone can be attracted to. A man who identifies as nonbinary is going to attract people who like men.

parmnion · 15-01-2021, 07:07 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

i have officially retired, thankfully

Id rather watch a good film

Or babestaion.x

Captain.Remy · 15-01-2021, 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Oliver_W

It doesn't matter to me, but it's still not valid. Not due to my say-so, but because there are only two sexes that someone can be attracted to. A man who identifies as nonbinary is going to attract people who like men.

"It's still not valid" according TO YOU.

Again, all we read here is intolerance and an opinion, not a fact.
What they feel is valid, who they are is valid. I really can't see in what name you think you can say what other people are and feel is valid or not.

Again, their sexuality is not harming anyone so just love people for who they are and you'll be alright.

Cherie · 15-01-2021, 07:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Jake.

Karl dipping his feet in both pools?

I don’t think it was his feet

Marsh. · 15-01-2021, 08:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Oliver_W

It doesn't matter to me, but it's still not valid. Not due to my say-so, but because there are only two sexes that someone can be attracted to. A man who identifies as nonbinary is going to attract people who like men.

Why are you pretending to be the spokesperson for who other people find sexually attractive? Not every trans person goes through life looking like their sex assigned at birth.

No matter how much you want to be right, you're not.

Morgan. · 15-01-2021, 09:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Black Dagger

I'm gay with asexual tendencies because sex to me is something I care so little about. When I was with my ex we never had intercourse because it didn't feel right and the bond and just being with him meant more.

I totally didn’t expect to enter this thread and encounter someone with the same mindset as me. For a while I’ve been feeling invalidated by the fact I care so little about sex so this is actually super reassuring to read.

Thank you, I guess? Sorry for being awkward

Ramsay · 15-01-2021, 09:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Jake.

Karl dipping his feet in both pools?

Both pools very wet bby

Ramsay · 15-01-2021, 09:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Cherie

I don’t think it was his feet

west brit gets it!

Jack_ · 15-01-2021, 09:49 PM

I only date women* but a mouth is a mouth

*never say never I guess. Can’t see it though

Ramsay · 15-01-2021, 09:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Morgan.

I totally didn’t expect to enter this thread and encounter someone with the same mindset as me. For a while I’ve been feeling invalidated by the fact I care so little about sex so this is actually super reassuring to read.

Thank you, I guess? Sorry for being awkward

Asexuals rise up! There's a great cartoon called Bojack Horseman about an alcoholic horse where animals and humans live together on earth and talk and interact like humans but there's a main character called Todd who's asexual and he has a really good arc about discovering his asexuality check it out if you get the chance it's a very funny, emotionally deep show. My favourite show ever.

Kate! · 15-01-2021, 09:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Morgan.

I totally didn’t expect to enter this thread and encounter someone with the same mindset as me. For a while I’ve been feeling invalidated by the fact I care so little about sex so this is actually super reassuring to read.

Thank you, I guess? Sorry for being awkward

Morgan.

LemonJam · 15-01-2021, 10:16 PM

Gay, but have dabbled with pussoir after a few drinks

Black Dagger · 15-01-2021, 10:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Morgan.

I totally didn’t expect to enter this thread and encounter someone with the same mindset as me. For a while I’ve been feeling invalidated by the fact I care so little about sex so this is actually super reassuring to read.

Thank you, I guess? Sorry for being awkward

Morgan <3

Sex is terrifying and I dont really like it. I'd rather just cuddle somebody and watch a film. Most of the guys I've been with haven't pleasured me because I have to really enjoy somebody. Youre not awkward and I'm glad youve mentioned it!

Morgan. · 15-01-2021, 10:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Ramsay

Asexuals rise up! There's a great cartoon called Bojack Horseman about an alcoholic horse where animals and humans live together on earth and talk and interact like humans but there's a main character called Todd who's asexual and he has a really good arc about discovering his asexuality check it out if you get the chance it's a very funny, emotionally deep show. My favourite show ever.

I’ll check it out at some point!

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Originally Posted by Kate!

Morgan.

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Originally Posted by Black Dagger

Morgan <3

Sex is terrifying and I dont really like it. I'd rather just cuddle somebody and watch a film. Most of the guys I've been with haven't pleasured me because I have to really enjoy somebody. Youre not awkward and I'm glad youve mentioned it!

100% how I feel. Cuddle supremacy tbh

Ramsay · 15-01-2021, 10:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Morgan.

I’ll check it out at some point!

it's on Netflix. Only like 6 seasons with 12 eps each so not a huge commitment but holy moly it'll leave a lasting impression on you. It's been a year since it finished and I still think about the subjects it brought up. Amazing.
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as Lucas said you're not being awkward! It's really good!

Morgan. · 15-01-2021, 10:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Ramsay

it's on Netflix. Only like 6 seasons with 12 eps each so not a huge commitment but holy moly it'll leave a lasting impression on you. It's been a year since it finished and I still think about the subjects it brought up. Amazing.
Also

as Lucas said you're not being awkward! It's really good!

It think more than anything it’s the fear of not finding anyone that feels the same way. Where I’m living at the moment there’s definitely a lot of pressure/expectation around sex so it’s something I’ve definitely got to navigate carefully.

The last thing I want to be is a burden on an other half and be in a position where they’re unfulfilled in the relationship.

Ramsay · 15-01-2021, 11:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Morgan.

It think more than anything it’s the fear of not finding anyone that feels the same way. Where I’m living at the moment there’s definitely a lot of pressure/expectation around sex so it’s something I’ve definitely got to navigate carefully.

The last thing I want to be is a burden on an other half and be in a position where they’re unfulfilled in the relationship.

Yeah true there can be alot of pressure about it depending on the person, but there's definitely people out there like you that don't value that part so much and would be happy to do exactly what you do or don't want to do and when you find someone that you just click with you'll wonder how you were so worried

Like mentioned before cuddles are the best! Sex isn't the end all be all, probably best to talk to Lucas about this sorry I've no idea what I'm on about I'm just on about clicking about how I was a hooking up with a friend for a bit during lockdown cus I was afraid of getting close to people for so long, I did and we stopped it cus that's not what we signed up for

but yeah is there a tinder for asexuals? That's a storyline in bojack