[rusticgal]

Well my heart goes out for your friend…the not knowing must be just awful.

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

Well my heart goes out for your friend…the not knowing must be just awful.

This.

It's a situation that I wouldn't want to go through, and it's also a situation that I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy.

[ThomasC]

Originally Posted by AnnieK

Depends on if he any money in there in the first place.

I have some accounts I have left untouched for years lol.

He could have opened another account that no-one knows about - or in someone elses name. He could have legally changed his name. I suppose it depends how much he want to "disappear"

Unless he is no longer alive (which I agree is the more likely situation) but people can disappear if they want to enough.

Yeah I agree

Originally Posted by Kate!

The lad who's disappeared was doing up a house he'd bought to live in. His plan was to have it as a holiday home. He was living in a caravan in the meantime. His car has never moved from outside the house in 2 years.

There was a couple of grand in the bank accounts which are now frozen.

Sniffer dogs found traces of both blood and drugs in the caravan.

Well this changes things quite drastically.

Drugs and money. Hmmm. Like a European county lines.

He might have been in debt with dealers and that doesn't really end well, does it?

Loan sharks, drug dealers, nasty business.

As a mother of must be a horrendous, heartbreaking and sole destroying thing to have to try and deal with....the not knowing and all the questions.