[SherzyK]

[Liam-]

Yeah, this doesn’t make for good reading like the usual drama does

[Kate!]

Originally Posted by Glenn.

I hope you’re not referring to cal who has just stated has helped you?

Cal who betrayed my trust by telling everyone loud and clear I was a beggar you mean.

[LukeB]

Originally Posted by Kate!

I hope you never have to struggle, really struggle.

I'm on sickness benefits I'm not able to get a job.

You only struggle because you play bingo which is a luxury. If you're struggling stop playing bingo simples.

[Barry.]

Originally Posted by Nicky91

try distracting yourself with binge (re)watching some series or movie marathons, or maybe some gaming on your PS4 or PS5 whichever one you got

don't let shopping become an addiction, then it is also no longer fun


borrowing money is never a good idea, borrowing money costs money, you know these adverts

Thanks Nicky. I try to distract, it just depends on my mood too. I shop more when I’m sad.

Kate might be the same and it depends on her mood too.

[Cal.]

Originally Posted by Kate!

Cal who betrayed my trust by telling everyone loud and clear I was a beggar you mean.

That isn’t what happened Kate. I was good to you. I lent you money even when we weren’t on speaking terms as I didn’t like the thought of my own mum being in some of the situations you’ve found yourself in. Even today I was considering lending you the money and telling you not to bother paying it back or contacting me again as I know we aren’t on speaking terms yet again. I wish you well and hope you find a way out of this endless cycle.

[Kate!]

Originally Posted by LukeB

You only struggle because you play bingo which is a luxury. If you're struggling stop playing bingo simples.

You know nothing. I don't smoke or drink. I only go to bingo when it's cheap. Get the facts before judging.

[Redway]

Originally Posted by Kate!

Cal who betrayed my trust by telling everyone loud and clear I was a beggar you mean.

To be honest, Kate, I don’t think Cal was implying that at all. S/he’s just trying to give you practical solutions cor how to manage your finances a bit better going forward. I don’t get involved in drama but unfortunately there’s a certain limit beyond which most people aren’t going to feel obliged to keep the confidence, which is one of the reasons why I said I don’t think you should be as open a book on this side of the internet.

[Kate!]

Originally Posted by Cal.

That isn’t what happened Kate. I was good to you. I lent you money even when we weren’t on speaking terms as I didn’t like the thought of my own mum being in some of the situations you’ve found yourself in. Even today I was considering lending you the money and telling you not to bother paying it back or contacting me again as I know we aren’t on speaking terms yet again. I wish you well and hope you find a way out of this endless cycle.

It is though Cal. You also told everyone I had an affair when I didn't?

[Glenn.]

Originally Posted by Kate!

I hope you never have to struggle, really struggle.

I'm on sickness benefits I'm not able to get a job.

I’m very good with money which you’re clearly not. So it’s doubtful really.

I have a very substantial side hustle also. Maybe you can sell things to make some money

[Cal.]

Originally Posted by Kate!

It is though Cal. You also told everyone I had an affair when I didn't?

You told me what you told me and I didn’t realise it was private knowledge since we were in an online chat that nobody knew the identities of the people involved. I apologised.

[Kate!]

Originally Posted by Cal.

You told me what you told me and I didn’t realise it was private knowledge since we were in an online chat that nobody knew the identities of the people involved. I apologised.

I told you that I was tempted by an ex. That's it. Yes fair enough you did apologise but now I've got the likes of Qua coming on Tibb to berate me. When inreality I cur off all contact with the guy and ended it.

[SherzyK]

Kate, I sympathise with you and I hope whatever financial hardship you’re going through is eased and gets sorted in the end. But you really need to help yourself before others can help you. There’s many outlets to try and find a working from home job if your reason for not working is long term sickness. Put yourself out there because there’s definitely places you can go to make ends meet.

You should definitely speak to your bank and make arrangements if things are getting worse, but this is not the right way about it ma

[LukeB]

Originally Posted by Cal.

You told me what you told me and I didn’t realise it was private knowledge since we were in an online chat that nobody knew the identities of the people involved. I apologised.

Don't because she spoke about the affair on tibb

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by The Slim Reaper

Look, everyone has had their say now, so either a mod needs to delete this thread, or everyone just leaves it where it is. It's really uncomfortable reading. Whatever the facts are, they've been pointed out repeatedly by now. No more needs to be said imo.

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[Kate!]

Originally Posted by LukeB

Don't because she spoke about the affair on tibb

Show me where I said I was having an affair or anything remotely similar?? I've just told one person I cut off all contact because I was tempted. That's what I said. I hate it when your words get twisted.

[Moniqua]

my god, what’s happening…

[Kate!]

I'm gonna take Slims words as verbatim and request the thread closed.