[arista]

[Meghan seemed engaged in a delightful conversation
with one of the party guests as she attended
the reception with the Nigerian chief of defence
staff Christopher Musa]

[arista]

[Harry was also pictured at the event wearing
a cream linen suit and at one point was heard joking
with a guest who was wearing a black tuxedo:
'Love your jacket. I want it.']

[arista]

[Meghan and Harry look on during
the dance performances in Abuja on Saturday]

[Ammi]

…some great pics there, Arista……

[Redway]

Ifeoma Omowale Edidiong Meghan Markle, well done.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by bitontheslide

i wonder how many Nigerian charities will now spring up representing them

They certainly need charities for the poor animals in that country,some of the things I have heard they do to them is shocking and upsetting,So could H&M start a charity to help animals and highlight the animals plight,

[Maru]

I can see now why his dad didn't want to meet with him prior, because it'd look like it was legitimizing what is basically an unofficial royal tour. But even saying that, the pictures are amazing and for once, they are photographed here very well. Any false pretenses aside, it's so nice to see the smiling faces and genuine energy on full display. It seems the Nigerian people are very good hosts.

[jet]

I thought this was very informative from the Quora site....

I'm of Nigerian origin (Ibo). I left the country twenty years ago but still in touch with family and friends there. Nigeria is a country of 200m people with over 250 tribes with distinct cultures and languages. It is also a modern creation of Lord Lugard who drew a line on the map to carve out the country 'Nigeria'. Nobody can be 43% Nigerian. It doesn't exist. You have to be part of one of the 250 tribes and some of those tribes exist in Ghana or Cameroon. Nigerians know this but they don't feel strongly enough to react. It's just entertaining and they are always up for entertainment.

The truth is that on Nigerian terms, this visit is not significant and cannot be compared to a real royal tour. The Sussexes are not being treated as royals though it suits the media to pretend they are, knowing the British and American audience don't know the difference and don't know much about Nigerians or their culture.

While Nigeria is still a developing country and has its issues, I think it is slightly insulting to look at this mess and take that as representative of the Nigerian government hosting an international event or hosting royals. This visit and all the activities have been hosted and organised by the Nigerian army and military wives and it shows. The Nigerian government is not involved , that is why you see no Ministers or Federal Govt officials at any event. This is not on their radar as an official event. State Governors are autonomous so Kaduna and Lagos State governors can receive them without crossing diplomatic lines and governors receive celebrities all the time.

In my view and that of many Nigerians, the army didn't really go out of their way to put forward their best foot. The attempt feels very 'low effort' and cheap. The state of the locations and banners, the attempt at an inspection of the guards at the Defence HQ security post with mismatched soldiers. They could easily have pulled together a couple of platoons (of soldiers) and staged a proper inspection if that's what they were seeking to do but the Defence Chief is being very careful not to cross diplomatic lines while indulging his visitors with minimal effort and, in my opinion, he hasn't. He is entitled to host visitors without involvement of the Nigerian government. He obviously has his agenda for indulging in it but I promise you he doesn't give a hoot for Harry's feud with his family. He will do the same for any minor royal or celebrity as long as he gets something from it and is staying within his lane.

The whole itinerary for the Sussexes could be replicated, and probably better organised for other international visitors e.g. Kanye , Jay Z, Beyonce, Bill Gates etc. depending on who is hosting them. The difference is in the coverage outside of Nigeria. These celebrities I mentioned don't take their photographers and media to record every reception or visit and send out copy. This is the crux of the matter. The Sussexes and their media enablers are manipulatingthe fact western audiences don't know much about the country to present this visit as more than it is.
From Nigeria's perspective, this is a nothingburger; the government is not involved, no recognised traditional ruler is involved, a gathering of c30 Nigerians around some visitors does not represent a country with a population of 200m. Nigeria has had previous royal visits and the difference is clear. There are longstanding issues but they can and have done way better than this.

This OTT coverage provides content for the media and opportunity to poke the BRF. It will blow over in less than a week and everyone will move on to the next thing. We've seen this movie before with the OTT coverage of the 'revenge' tour, the New York adventures etc. rinse and repeat.
It's just manipulative noise. The media wants to push an agenda and provoke reaction. The best antidote is the BRF's approach of just getting about their affairs which will stand the test of time.

I, for one, am grateful that they are no longer part of the BRF. Going by their activities since they left, they would have been a huge liability and the BRF dodged a bullet there in my opinion. Royal service is not about flash and noise but steady dignity, quiet prestige and disciplined resilience.

For the Sussexes sake, I hope they are able to find a purposeful niche and peace in their post-royal lives. This flailing around and seeming inability to move on from the BRF or seeking adjacency to royalty is not sustainable nor is it conducive to their long-term wellbeing.

[arista]

Originally Posted by Maru

I can see now why his dad didn't want to meet with him prior, because it'd look like it was legitimizing what is basically an unofficial royal tour. But even saying that, the pictures are amazing and for once, they are photographed here very well. Any false pretenses aside, it's so nice to see the smiling faces and genuine energy on full display. It seems the Nigerian people are very good hosts.

Yes all done in the new rich zone
of Nigeria.

A new 3 Part Documentary on Nigeria by Michael Palin
showed this zone Abuja as an upmarket place.

https://www.thisisbigbrother.com/for...d.php?t=390881

[jet]

Daily Record.
Meghan Markle slammed by Nigeria's First Lady for flaunting 'nakedness everywhere' during visit

Meghan Markle, has been slammed by Nigeria's First Lady, Senator Oluremi Tinubu, for flaunting her "nakedness everywhere" during her recent three-day visit to the African nation
The royal trip saw the Duchess of Sussex making frequent outfit changes on the trip with her husband Prince Harry, with her fashion choices seemingly offending the First Lady.…..
................
An example was Meghan visiting schoolchildren during the day in a long shoulderless, backless gown, suited to an evening cocktail party. She hasn't a clue.

[jet]

Daily Record
During her visit to Nigeria, Meghan sported a variety of outfits and accessories, splurging nearly £120,000 on jewellery and new attire.
She donned several high-end brands during the trip, including Carolina Herrera, Altuzarra, and Johanna Ortiz.
The decision has been met with backlash considering the severe poverty levels in Nigeria, where over 112 million individuals live in destitution.
The disparity is not due to a scarcity of resources, as Nigeria boasts the largest economy in Africa, but rather because those in power are disconnected from the hardships of ordinary people....

[Glenn.]

Yeah I know, I heard the royals wear clothes from primark

[Glenn.]

Like come on now. There’s nothing else going on in the world?

Her clothes are now fair game to bash her? Grow up

[jet]

Originally Posted by Glenn.

Like come on now. There’s nothing else going on in the world?

Her clothes are now fair game to bash her? Grow up

That's not very nice, telling Nigeria's First Lady, Oluremi Tinubu to grow up. She is entitled to expect visitors to respect their culture.

[Glenn.]

Maybe she should stop worrying about what someone’s wearing and worry about the 112 million people living in destitution.

[jet]

Originally Posted by Glenn.

Maybe she should stop worrying about what someone’s wearing and worry about the 112 million people living in destitution.

She already does. Stop bashing the Lady.

https://guardian.ng/news/first-lady-...ty-nationwide/

The first Lady has pledged to empower 180,000 women out of poverty nationwide through her PET project. The Vocational Training Project will lift 5,000 women from each state out of poverty.

[Glenn.]

Just 5000 each?

[parmnion]

Shes looking really skinny.

[LeatherTrumpet]

going to school semi-naked and yes she is not looking well

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

going to school semi-naked and yes she is not looking well

Blimey … she’s going the same way Kate went

Skin and bone


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[Glenn.]

Men still commenting on a woman’s weight and how she’s dressed.

[Redway]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

going to school semi-naked and yes she is not looking well

If she truly isn’t well then you dropping your usual bait is even-more below the belt. Disgusting.

[Redway]

Originally Posted by arista

Yes all done in the new rich zone
of Nigeria.

A new 3 Part Documentary on Nigeria by Michael Palin
showed this zone Abuja as an upmarket place.

https://www.thisisbigbrother.com/for...d.php?t=390881

Abuja’s the capital. Of course it’s going to have a bit of money.

[LeatherTrumpet]

Originally Posted by Redway

If she truly isn’t well then you dropping your usual bait is even-more below the belt. Disgusting.

stating she does not look well is a matter of opinion that is shared by other members and many online so I have no idea what you are blithering on about in an aggressive fashion?

[Redway]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

stating she does not look well is a matter of opinion that is shared by other members and many online so I have no idea what you are blithering on about in an aggressive fashion?

You’re baiting, not sympathising with her. You know that.