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Originally Posted by Redway
Yeah. And to be fair Ben does have a point about not knowing how reliable at least certain people are until you become a lender. I’m still inclined to want to bank on the reliability of family and solid friends (I wasn’t really talking about random acquaintances anyway). It’s just unfortunate that unreliable people leave a bad rep. behind for everyone-else.
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…yeah, I think Ben also has some very sound and good advice because it isn’t just a ‘one fix’ thing and loaning money for instance…?…can provide like a ‘plaster’ type fix in a moment but still might leave lots of other things that could be addressed for lifestyle changes so that it’s not such a struggle for that person…?…those are the things that he’s suggesting also that he adopts as looking at different layers of a situation when someone needs help…
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