[Loukas]

Originally posted by Angiebabe
I don't think Ive ever read such a wonderful post before on any forum I've ever been on, but reading that from you Ash was simply stunning.

To take that time, with the advice you gave this young man was quite moving and very very uplifting.
It was the time factor that impressed me (unless your a speed typist of course), the advice too was fantastic and one I as another non expert would have advised the same, as so did Lauren.
A lot of people will read that, a lot too of similar age to Conzors so it won't be just of help to him alone another reason why it so poignantly well worded.
Some of your have even made me focus from a personal problem too only my frequent crying is nothing to do with hormones I'm quite sure.
However your advice of how to cope and seek assistance certainly picked me up for a moment and for that also I'm grateful too.
Watching BB in particular we can often forget some of the values that make decent people so to find that post in particular Ash was beautiful, and one I'll not forget.

Ang

Hope things get easier for you Conzors but take Ash and Lauren's words to heart print them out if need be, I cant add much more to what they have already said, apart from good luck, honey x

Ash and Lauren are just AMAZING with advise TiBB will not be the same without them. Love you girls

[Conzors]

Originally posted by Angiebabe
I don't think Ive ever read such a wonderful post before on any forum I've ever been on, but reading that from you Ash was simply stunning.

To take that time, with the advice you gave this young man was quite moving and very very uplifting.
It was the time factor that impressed me (unless your a speed typist of course), the advice too was fantastic and one I as another non expert would have advised the same, as so did Lauren.
A lot of people will read that, a lot too of similar age to Conzors so it won't be just of help to him alone another reason why it so poignantly well worded.
Some of your have even made me focus from a personal problem too only my frequent crying is nothing to do with hormones I'm quite sure.
However your advice of how to cope and seek assistance certainly picked me up for a moment and for that also I'm grateful too.
Watching BB in particular we can often forget some of the values that make decent people so to find that post in particular Ash was beautiful, and one I'll not forget.

Ang

Hope things get easier for you Conzors but take Ash and Lauren's words to heart print them out if need be, I cant add much more to what they have already said, apart from good luck, honey x

Awwwwwwwwwwwww. Thats really like.. Aww.

[Rocko]

Originally posted by Angiebabe
I don't think Ive ever read such a wonderful post before on any forum I've ever been on, but reading that from you Ash was simply stunning.

Yeah, sorry Cons for derailing the subject a bit, but yeah, that Ash's posts are always extremely insightful.

[AngRemembered]

Originally posted by DoubleTrouble

Ash and Lauren are just AMAZING with advise TiBB will not be the same without them. Love you girls

And thats the second best post ive read this week

[Lauren]

Originally posted by DoubleTrouble

Ash and Lauren are just AMAZING with advise TiBB will not be the same without them. Love you girls

Aww, thanks Loukas, thats really nice

[Loukas]

Originally posted by Angiebabe

And thats the second best post ive read this week

Awww thank you

[Loukas]

Originally posted by Lauren

Aww, thanks Loukas, thats really nice

It's OK. It's True. Members like you make TiBB for me.

[Lauren]

Ooh, I have an idea but it sounds really cheesy - so just laugh at me LMAO.

My friend recommended it to me when I felt down once. It's called a happy box (LOL I warned you on the cheesy factor!), and things that make you happy... i.e. a nice story, some pens and paper to write, a photo that makes you smile, maybe an iPod loaded with some really happy songs etc... you put in the box. And when you feel angry/down just use it.

[Lauren]

Originally posted by Rex=Legend

Seriously , just chill out. Your a teenager. Thats all thats wrong. Dont fall into the trap of becoming all emo exaggerating your problems to convince yourself yer poetic .

The very fact his problems are affecting his friendships and relationships, and overall happiness shows that it's something serious. He doesn't need to over-exaggerate if he is upset at them, surely.

[andybigbro]

Originally posted by Lauren
Ooh, I have an idea but it sounds really cheesy - so just laugh at me LMAO.

My friend recommended it to me when I felt down once. It's called a happy box (LOL I warned you on the cheesy factor!), and things that make you happy... i.e. a nice story, some pens and paper to write, a photo that makes you smile, maybe an iPod loaded with some really happy songs etc... you put in the box. And when you feel angry/down just use it.

Thats actually a really good idea.
Your friend is wise.

[Rex=Legend]

Originally posted by Lauren
Ooh, I have an idea but it sounds really cheesy - so just laugh at me LMAO.

My friend recommended it to me when I felt down once. It's called a happy box (LOL I warned you on the cheesy factor!), and things that make you happy... i.e. a nice story, some pens and paper to write, a photo that makes you smile, maybe an iPod loaded with some really happy songs etc... you put in the box. And when you feel angry/down just use it.

Im personaly against any tactic to convince yourself your happy because normaly it backfires methinks.

Best thing is to just chill. If you make a happy box , its like convincing yourself and confirming you defo have problems.

Maybe thats just me.

[Lauren]

Originally posted by Rex=Legend

Im personaly against any tactic to convince yourself your happy because normaly it backfires methinks.

Best thing is to just chill. If you make a happy box , its like convincing yourself and confirming you defo have problems.

Maybe thats just me.

You're very pessimistic? LOL. You're not convincing yourself to be happy, you're making yourself happy.

It's a problem once you feel unhappy, you don't have to make it a problem.

[Rex=Legend]

Originally posted by Lauren

The very fact his problems are affecting his friendships and relationships, and overall happiness shows that it's something serious. He doesn't need to over-exaggerate if he is upset at them, surely.

It was a joke. Lightening the matter is always a good policy , I think. Im not trying to minimalise or downplay anything , but everything you mentioned every teen goes through.

Just Livin La Vida loca and forget everything. Thats the way to go. The internet is also a bad place to start Conzors. Your gonna convince youself you DO have problems if you take everything serious and seek advice.

Just chillax.

[AngRemembered]

Originally posted by Lauren
Ooh, I have an idea but it sounds really cheesy - so just laugh at me LMAO.

My friend recommended it to me when I felt down once. It's called a happy box (LOL I warned you on the cheesy factor!), and things that make you happy... i.e. a nice story, some pens and paper to write, a photo that makes you smile, maybe an iPod loaded with some really happy songs etc... you put in the box. And when you feel angry/down just use it.

NO WAY!!!! well this has spooked me, thats exactly the advice someone I havnt seen for ages gave to me today, almost word for word (she too would'nt know what an ipod was thats the difference)
well blow me, I'm in so much shock I bet ive gone paler than Dale with sea sickness
That really is spooky...............problems (i thought) what problems

[Rex=Legend]

Originally posted by Lauren

You're very pessimistic?

Quiet the opposite. I just believe seeking support and using tactics and methods makes it clear your depressed and makes the problem worse. Their should not be need for any of that [See : first half hour of Fight Club] .

[Rocko]

Originally posted by Lauren
Ooh, I have an idea but it sounds really cheesy - so just laugh at me LMAO.

My friend recommended it to me when I felt down once. It's called a happy box... things that make you happy.... And when you feel angry/down just use it.

My parents would be ashamed if they knew what I was reading that to be.

[Conzors]

Originally posted by Rex=Legend

It was a joke. Lightening the matter is always a good policy , I think. Im not trying to minimalise or downplay anything , but everything you mentioned every teen goes through.

Just Livin La Vida loca and forget everything. Thats the way to go. The internet is also a bad place to start Conzors. Your going to convince youself you DO have problems if you take everything serious and seek advice.

Just chillax.

Im sorry.
But i so totally disagree with you.
If i dont know what im going through, Why keep it inside of me?
It will all build up and then i will eventually explode.

And thats easy for you to say, easier said than done.

[Rex=Legend]

Originally posted by Conzors

Im sorry.
But i so totally disagree with you.
If i dont know what Im going through, Why keep it inside of me?
It will all build up and then i will eventually explode.

And thats easy for you to say, easier said than done.

When did I ever say keep it inside you?

Your taking yourself way too seriously. Just kick back , relax , and forget everything. Seriously. Thats better than what any professional can offer up.

[Lauren]

Originally posted by Rex=Legend

Quiet the opposite. I just believe seeking support and using tactics and methods makes it clear your depressed and makes the problem worse. Their should not be need for any of that [See : first half hour of Fight Club] .

I disagree (again, I know I'm not doing it purposefully!). I think identifying that something is making you down, and separating yourself from said problem helps more than "ignoring" the issue and accepting you need help.

[Rex=Legend]

Originally posted by Lauren

I disagree (again, I know I'm not doing it purposefully!). I think identifying that something is making you down, and separating yourself from said problem helps more than "ignoring" the issue and accepting you need help.

The issue WILL go away though , if you want it. The mind is strong. Exposing yourself to support , google , advice , EVERYTHING , is just hanging around the problem more and more. Not healthy IMO.

[melanie]

Originally posted by Conzors

If that involvs getting up earlier than i already do then NO. lmao

I get up at 5am EVERY MORNING just to get to school on time. LOL.

LOL exactly why I said "When I use to do that." Exercise can be just as good as food. Maybe you can try swimming or reading. I use to sit and watch tv all day or go shopping.
Do something you enjoy doing.

[Conzors]

Originally posted by Billy21
Time does help, as I already said, the same thing happened with me, and I got over it.

Clearly.

And ive waited long enough dontcha think.

Im just fed up of beign emotional.

I like the old me.

[AngRemembered]

Originally posted by Rex=Legend

Chill with some mates. Friends are much better than anybody on the internet , and thats not a knock against anybody here!

Ok thats your e-christmas and valentine card now deleted

[Conzors]

Im off to bed.

Got to be up in 4 and a half hours LMFAO.

So Night

And Thanks for the advice evryone .

xxx

[andybigbro]

Originally posted by Conzors
Im off to bed.

Got to be up in 4 and a half hours LMFAO.

So Night

And Thanks for the advice evryone .

xxx

Have a good Sleep and hopefully you eill feel a bit better in the morning