[InTheHood]

As I said in the other thread


When I met my white girlfriend, back in 1999, all but 1 of my family dis-owned me. I have not spoken to them since. All because she is white.

When I get married later this year, I will have no family at my wedding, apart from my brother, who respects my decision. My family (Mum, Dad, 5 brothers and 4 sisters) are all racist with exception of my 6th brother.

My wife to be, will have all her family there. The majority of the church will be white.

I'm deeply saddened that my family feel this way, but whether they are there or not, I'm marrying my white girlfriend. I don't see a white girl, I see someone I love and care about.

I've been called by my family, a traitor and a disgrace to black people. I no longer care, I still have black friends who respect my decision. In fact, I don't ever recall it being an issue with them.

Please stop using the racism card for everything. Yes racism exists, but I've seen the other side, where my black family abuse the white race, so try and see it from both sides