[Wildcat!]

SO much for them being big bad bullies.
Obviously sara has had her disagreement with rex, and Darnell was mean to her for like a couple of days, and now she has obviously chosen the people she likes the most in the house to be her cheerleaders.

How funny! When this forum goes to meltdown, putting the bully tag on the boys, she on the other hand has perspective, and is able to forgive her friends.

Maybe we should learn a thing or 2 from that!

[Benjamin]

Yet another reason Sara should win. Any other h/mate would hold the grudge and play the bullied card, but not Sara. Instead she forgives the one's who bullied her, has tried to cause as little tension as possible and shown that she is strong and mature in her ways, very genuine and still manages to be lively and funny.

[BBkid]

That is very good of her.

[Locke.]

I think it's time to forgive and move on...

[Jen]

Originally posted by David_Purdy
I think it's time to forgive and move on...

Agreed

[bananarama]

In the final week Darnell and his side kicks will be good little boys.It's called damage limitation aimed at the gullabe who forgive evil....

[SexualHeroics]

Originally posted by nowsthebturn
SO much for them being big bad bullies.
Obviously sara has had her disagreement with rex, and Darnell was mean to her for like a couple of days, and now she has obviously chosen the people she likes the most in the house to be her cheerleaders.

How funny! When this forum goes to meltdown, putting the bully tag on the boys, she on the other hand has perspective, and is able to forgive her friends.

Maybe we should learn a thing or 2 from that!

It's pretty amusing isn't it. The Darnell and Rex haters all jumped up and tried to create a CBB5 2 scenario - claiming Sara was the victim of an ongoing bullying campaign, but in reality the lads only went over the top for a few hours one night - following which they instantly apologised and felt bad about it. Even Sara defended Rex as innocent! I've heard people claiming Sara was "bullied for weeks"! LOL

[jonsep]

if you ask me i think mo has had a tougher time that sara.

[SexualHeroics]

Originally posted by jonsep
if you ask me i think mo has had a tougher time that sara.

By a long, long way.

[jonsep]

Originally posted by SexualHeroics

By a long, long way.

[Locke.]

Even Rachel has had a harder time than Sara...

[Saph]

Originally posted by David_Purdy
I think it's time to forgive and move on...

I DONT

KILL THAT BASTARD!

[Locke.]

Originally posted by SaphLiike

I DONT

KILL THAT b******!

You're very mature

[jonsep]

Originally posted by SaphLiike

I DONT

KILL THAT b******!

grow up,your breeching forum rules

[SexualHeroics]

Originally posted by David_Purdy
Even Rachel has had a harder time than Sara...

True, but people need something to cling on to. Some want to make Darnell/Rex look worse than they are - some want to make Sara seem better than she is.

It's like striking a match and the entire room filling with smoke, the way this forum has hammed up this situation.

[bananarama]

Originally posted by jonsep
if you ask me i think mo has had a tougher time that sara.

Yeah it must be tough doing all that sleeping and eating all that food......Poor man........

[Leonine]

"Weeks of bullying" may be an ill-thought way of putting it. But a quick look at the C4 website tells me 9th August - so 3 weeks ago - was the night of the big showdown in the bedroom between Sara & Darnell where Darnell made a big deal over Sara wanting to be in Stu's bed, not his. Since then Darnell has consistenty targetted Sara with jibes & taunts designed to put her down & fcuk with her head.

I mean ffs look at Sara's physical appearance and look at Darnell's. How can he have such lack of self awareness and lack of humility to even think for one second she may want to be anything more than just mates with him? Of course she's gonna want Stu over him, the stupid, arrogant ba$tard! If a buff young lad half my age flirted with me, telling me how great I was (& let me stick my tits in his face a la Darnell's "morning glory" hug with Sara lol!) I wouldn't think "Whooa he really got the hots for me". I'd laugh it off as a laugh with a flirty younger male - end of.

If Darnell has any hope in hell of ever getting a girlfriend that self wareness & humility is something he'll have to learn first. He'll also have to learn who's in his league and who isn't & stop going after the things in life he's just never gonna get. If he doesn't learn this he'll always be a bunny boiler & frighten away every potential partner.

And as for the forum over-exaggerating the treatment of Sara - I wouldn't expect any man (boy?) on here to understand what it feels like to be a lone female & have 3 men bombard you with questions about your sex life, questions that insinuate you're a slut, then call you a slut to your face, then call you an ugly bitch... all the while giggling & high-fiving each other like a group of hunters gloating over a kill.