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Old 01-09-2008, 03:19 AM #26
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ukturtle, i feel really really sad for you now

I have cheated and i still feel awful about it.
First time was with Toader technically ... we had just split up but i made out with him about 5 seconds before someone else and broke his heart. But that was with James ...
But this year, there was someone, who I kissed. and then I stopped. then I dumped James and went out with this guy for two weeks.
I was incredibly, incredibly stupid and I am SO lucky I have such a wonderful boyfriend who forgives so easily. He forgave alot before me.

It made me realize alot of things about myself, aswell.
I didn't realize how much it affected my boyfriend until Sweden where one day he admitted that though he trusted me, he didn't trust me as much as I did and he'd never ever believed i'd have done something like that, ever.

I still get really upset talking about it, and I feel REALLY, really guilty. and I NEVER feel guilty. ever.

Being a cheater was an absolutley horrible thing to do and I'm going to spend the rest of my life making it up to James and I can honestly say I would Never, EVER do that to him again.
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ukturtle, i feel really really sad for you now

I have cheated and i still feel awful about it.
First time was with Toader technically ... we had just split up but i made out with him about 5 seconds before someone else and broke his heart. But that was with James ...
But this year, there was someone, who I kissed. and then I stopped. then I dumped James and went out with this guy for two weeks.
I was incredibly, incredibly stupid and I am SO lucky I have such a wonderful boyfriend who forgives so easily. He forgave me a lot quicker than I did.

It made me realize alot of things about myself, aswell.
I didn't realize how much it affected my boyfriend until Sweden where one day he admitted that though he trusted me, he didn't trust me as much as he did and he'd never ever believed i'd have done something like that, ever.

I still get really upset talking about it, and this was at least 3/4 months ago. I feel REALLY, really guilty. and I NEVER feel guilty. ever.

Being a cheater was an absolutley horrible thing to do and I'm going to spend the rest of my life making it up to James and I can honestly say I would Never, EVER do that to him again.

Don't really feel guilty about Toader, though. He was a freaaaak.
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I've been in two relationships and been cheated on both times. Meh.
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Nope.. I'm too sexy. Jokess lol but no I aint.
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yerpp lots and lots of times
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I don't know how you cope with being cheated on guys but if it happened to me one day, I would cut the girl's head off and make her feel like **** in front of everyone with a huge scandal in the street or in front of her family.
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No, luckily.
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Ive never been with anyone to be cheated on but i reckon id be wayy to scared to cheat on someone expecially if i really cared about that person id feel horrible even thinking about it. So no i would never cheat xx
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Ive never been with anyone to be cheated on but i reckon id be wayy to scared to cheat on someone expecially if i really cared about that person id feel horrible even thinking about it. So no i would never cheat xx
That's what I thought too but sometimes, feeling are stronger and I guess you cannot help it whatever people say 'You shouldn't have done it'. But if I didn't want to, I wouldn't have, it's just that, you don't control yourself LOL
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i have been cheated on it was my daughters dad we had our wedding booked paid for and only 5 months away from being mr and mrs when i found him out that he had been cheating on me with his friends sister (it hurt more cos it had been going on for a long time) so the wedding was canceled we split and i kicked him out stupidly i let him convince me few months down the line he had finished it with her and we gave it another try for our daughter but he did it again with the same girl cos he loved her and not me and even told me at that point he had never wanted me to keep our daughter or get married to me have been single for 2 yrs on the 17th sept
i would never cheat though cos being on the recieving end of it i wouldnt want to hurt someone like my ex did to me
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aww i am sorry to hear that that must have been such an awful thing to go through.Some men (alot of them) are just pigs,people like that should be strung up by their privates
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