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Old 19-09-2008, 12:14 AM #1
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OMG! My boyfriend who I love to bits btw just proposed.

He is working away from home just now as he does quite a lot but then said on the phone "When I next see you there is a question I need to ask you.."

And me being a pure and utter idiot says "Haha well as long as it aint 'will you marry me' we will be fine?!"

Silence

Annies heart pounding..

Matt: Well wouldnt u?
Annie: Eh no!

OH DEAR GOD! WHAT HAVE I JUST DONE?!

He just hung up! Now wont even answer the phone to me!

What the hell am i going to do!?
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Old 19-09-2008, 12:22 AM #2
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Aww! Don't worry too much,I'm sure he's just a little upset about it right now. Once you talk to him,I'm sure it'll all be fine.
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Let him sleep on it then call him tomorrow.
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was he gonna propose to you on the phone LOL!!!!!!!

thats a new way
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OMG! My boyfriend who I love to bits btw just proposed.

He is working away from home just now as he does quite a lot but then said on the phone "When I next see you there is a question I need to ask you.."

And me being a pure and utter idiot says "Haha well as long as it aint 'will you marry me' we will be fine?!"

Silence

Annies heart pounding..

Matt: Well wouldnt u?
Annie: Eh no!

OH DEAR GOD! WHAT HAVE I JUST DONE?!

He just hung up! Now wont even answer the phone to me!

What the hell am i going to do!?
Congrats Annie! Dont worry, us guys forget thigs very quickly! Next time you see him, you will be engaged!
I youre in love with him, he will know it!
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If he loves you and you think its too soon he should love you even more because you dont want to jeopardise your relationship.
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If he loves you and you think its too soon he should love you even more because you dont want to jeopardise your relationship.
Well said.
I've told my boyfriend that I ain't gonna marry anyone for a few years, so he's gonna have to wait a long time.

Just make it clear that you're not ready, but you want to stay with him [obviously]
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You probably could have told him with a bit more tact, but next time you see him in person explain to him your feelings and how you're not ready for marriage yet but want to stay with him etc.
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Lol that's so something I would do Annie
I agree with everyone else. Let him rest on it, it probably was quite embarassing for him and then just let him know how much you love him and how marraige just doesn't seem like the right thing right now.
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Little Update:

Matt phoned me this morning apologising for over reacting. He said that he had planned on maybe proposing when we next seen each other as it would have been our anniversary.

I have spoken to him about getting engaged feeling that it would be too early and told him that I still love him more than anything and he understands.

So hopefully we will be in a couple of years but for now we are all fine...

Thanks everyone who tried to help
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Glad you got it sorted Annie
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Thats wonderful news Annie
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Ego drop, you should never do that to a man
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good news annie
i'm sure in a few years time you WILL be reayd. aww.
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If he loves you and you think its too soon he should love you even more because you dont want to jeopardise your relationship.
Well said.
I've told my boyfriend that I ain't going to marry anyone for a few years, so he's going to have to wait a long time.

Just make it clear that you're not ready, but you want to stay with him [obviously]
Well you are 16/17. Don't worry Annie just say you aint ready if you aint and If you are then well yeh. Your only 19, you have plenty of time to get married in the future.
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If you wanted to lay it on him even worse, you should of said... "Im already married"
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