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Originally posted by BB fernzy
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Originally posted by CharlotteSometimes
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Originally posted by BB fernzy
What do you mean double standards? This is a thread about Kemal and how irresponsible it was for him to go out and have sex with a stranger off the internet.
I don't see as why Craig's sex life is being brought into it and anyway what is the difference between what Craig did by going out on the pull and having sex with 2 strangers to most people going out and having a one night stand, he knew the people he was sleeping with and he's an adult and he know's what he is doing. Anything could have happened to Kemal. Why even mention homophobia in the first place?
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The double-standard is that Craig mentioned, or rather bragged about, his promiscuity with strangers on a weekly basis. Kemal mentions one incident and it's put under the microscope. A stranger is a stranger, whether it be someone online or someone in a dimly-lit nightclub.
So where is the difference between the scenario you suggest here and what Kemal did (or didn't, as the case may be)? And Craig placed a lot of emphasis in the fact that he most definitely did not know these people. Anything could've happened to Craig too, or indeed anyone that picks people up in such a casual manner.
Before Saskia left, there were several very detailed discussions that were just as graphic, and perhaps even more so than what Kemal had to say. Makosi showed everyone her favourite positions in the bedroom. That's just two examples of very graphic content on BB. So why highlight what Kemal had to say, suggest that he should've toned it down, and that CH4 should've broadcast a warning? There was no fuss made on these other occasions, so why now?
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Craig is an adult, he get's chatting to people in night clubs and they both want the same thing and the person is going to be around the same age as him, it's the same if I went to a nightclub and chatted up a girl and then had a one night stand, it's normal. Kemal only chatted to a person over the internet at the age of 16 and arranged to meet them, for all he knew they could have been an old pervert who could have killed him,leaving him alone at a skip, anything could have happend he was not even an adult, it was dangerous and totally stupid and set's a totally bad example.
The difference between Makosi and saskia talking about sex and Craig talking about one night stands to kemal meeting up with someone from a gay chatroom is big.
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Well said BB.
Tell me Charlottesometimes, would you like YOUR 16 year old son or daughter sneaking out and having sex with someone they not only don't know but someone who could have left him for dead in that skip?
For years we tell our kids, Don't talk to strangers, don't get into strange cars....and more recently we install programs to stop our kids seeing things they shouldn't on the internet. Then a complete idiot like this is allowed to shout and brag about it.
We parents have a hard enough time of keeping our kids out of trouble as it is without silly little girls like Kemal telling us how much fun it was.
26-07-2005, 12:08 PM
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