[pinkmichk]

Originally posted by Angel.D

Yes it does make you stronger in some ways,ie the more time that passes and the past is not mentioned then you get stronger ,but when the past comes back to haunt you, then you become weak again and the bigest thing is the evil intent of others, who just want you to suffer all the timeand not be happy in anyway.Do you think this is the right thing to do,?or is it as i said they are just evil?

i dont allow it to bother me and i dont let others drag me down and thus undoing all my effort it has taken to get to this point in my life if people are really that evil that they want to upset your balance then they really are not worth the time of day

[Angel.D]

Originally posted by Pj
Past should be the past.

Should be but its not

[ange7]

Originally posted by Angel.D

Should be but its not

nah don't agree ... else we will keep making the same mistakes over and over again. Who we were and the choices we made back then is what shaped us today. Like it or lump it.

[Angel.D]

Originally posted by ange7

nah don't agree ... else we will keep making the same mistakes over and over again. Who we were and the choices we made back then is what shaped us today. Like it or lump it.

Ok so if you have skeletons in the cuboard you don't want to keep them there ? you want everyone to know about them ? or would you want to forget about them ?

[NettoSuperstar!]

Originally posted by Angel.D

Ok so if you have skeletons in the cuboard you don't want to keep them there ? you want everyone to know about them ? or would you want to forget about them ?

Why would you want everyone to know about any skeletons you may have? I certainly dont, but I wont forget them and I wont be making the same mistakes again. andI wont be wearing them like a millstone round my neck either

[pinkmichk]

Originally posted by NettoSuperstar!

Why would you want everyone to know about any skeletons you may have? I certainly dont, but I wont forget them and I wont be making the same mistakes again. andI wont be wearing them like a millstone round my neck either

agree as i said i have some seriously bad/horrid stuff in my past (i am not putting it on here as there is no need) i certainly wont be making the same mistakes again yes they happened but its in my past it shaped who i am today so in a way i am thankful for it

[Angel.D]

Originally posted by pinkmichk

agree as i said i have some seriously bad/horrid stuff in my past (i am not putting it on here as there is no need) i certainly wont be making the same mistakes again yes they happened but its in my past it shaped who i am today so in a way i am thankful for it

Hi P hope your well I agree with what you say anyway people should take you as they find you no matter what is in your past thats the way i live my life.As long as they are ok with me then i'm ok with them.

[ange7]

Originally posted by Angel.D

Ok so if you have skeletons in the cuboard you don't want to keep them there ? you want everyone to know about them ? or would you want to forget about them ?

yeah what NettoSuperstar and Pink said. I don't want all to know them but I don't want to ignore them either. When I said your past choices shape you it's not written in stone... but you learn, grow wiser from them, from both good choices and bad. All I'm saying if you ignore history your doomed to repeat it. You still make choices today... they define just as much as past ones.

[Sting]

Originally posted by ange7

yeah what NettoSuperstar and Pink said. I don't want all to know them but I don't want to ignore them either. When I said your past choices shape you it's not written in stone... but you learn, grow wiser from them, from both good choices and bad. All I'm saying if you ignore history your doomed to repeat it. You still make choices today... they define just as much as past ones.

We should learn to forgive and try to forget

[LemonJam]

The past should definatley be the past. Never look back just keep running forward, but don't forget to stop to admire the view once in a while.

[andyman]

If the person killed out of free will then i hope the past rots their mind and take their own life... Save taxpayers money in keeping evil vile scum.

[bananarama]

The past is what locks our future.......If you let it. Religion is a classic example of that.......

[Sting]

Originally posted by andyman
If the person killed out of free will then i hope the past rots their mind and take their own life... Save taxpayers money in keeping evil vile scum.

Ok so what if someone has a temperary mental illness and is'nt in control of there actions ? should they not be helped so they could lead a decent life ? or do adopt your attitude and wash our hands of them as vile scum .

[andyman]

Originally posted by Sting

Ok so what if someone has a temperary mental illness and is'nt in control of there actions ? should they not be helped so they could lead a decent life ? or do adopt your attitude and wash our hands of them as vile scum .

Yes great logic, more human rights for the killers and fk the victims, lets let out all the mental wacko's onto the street because of course we cant breach their human rights!!!! Oh well if they attack again, lets just blame their parents, oh they so misunderstud them violent killers, poor lil them!

[AngRemembered]

Originally posted by Princess
You shouldn't forget the past-it allows you to learn from your mistakes and look back at fond memories. But negative things which happened in the past shouldn't be dwelled on-regrets are pointless,nothing you can do to change what you have done.

perfect

one of the best posts I've read on this brilliant forum

[Locke.]

Yeah sure, I received warnings on this forum in the past so if we're in a forgive and forget mood then I'd like them removed please. Thanks.

[NettoSuperstar!]

Originally posted by andyman

Yes great logic, more human rights for the killers and fk the victims, lets let out all the mental wacko's onto the street because of course we cant breach their human rights!!!! Oh well if they attack again, lets just blame their parents, oh they so misunderstud them violent killers, poor lil them!

Yet another ill informed and bigoted statement from AndyCapp! Do you have any experience of people with mental health problems? do you have any idea what its like for someone to hear voices, experience delusions and detachment from reality or to mistakenly believe they are in mortal danger?? No probably not, the world according to AndyCapp (***** the facts, ***** any kind of knowledge, logic or empathy or even attempting to research anything your talking about!, the world should listen to my hate filled ideas and accept this as truth!)