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Old 07-04-2009, 07:26 PM #1
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Default Dezzy asks: Is one life more sacred then another?
I thought I'd start a discussion thread, the first topic is something rather light. In many shows and films ETC it's considered a taboo to go out with a friend's ex. Do you think it is so? Have you ever been out with a friend's ex? Has a friend ever been out with yours? How would you feel about it?

I've never really got the big deal about this personally, I've had a friend go out with an ex before and I don't get why it's such a bad thing. If the relationship is over why should it matter?

Give us your opinions.
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nah it's finnne
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lol.

I dunno tbh
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My friend went out with another friend's ex and it was a whole big thing , but me and most of my friends don't see it as a big deal
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It depends who it is. I've done it before and never caused any problems- if they truly let go then they shouldn't mind. But a friend of mine did it to someone else and they stopped speaking, they hate each others guts now
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I think it's fine so long as you ask is it okay just out of courtesy(i can't spell that word lol).
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I personally wouldn't, cos of the baggage it brings. But whatever helps people sleep at night.
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i say no but thats based on personal experience cos the person my ex cheated on me with was a mutual friend of both of ours
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ARRRGH!!!!!

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Well with what i know it is bad if a woman does it.. Big no no.

But for us men it is fine, get in there and do the good old in and out.
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Depends on how their relationship ended. If there was cheating, or if there were still bad feelings between the pair, then it's probably not a good idea. But if they're truly 'over' it, then it should be fine.
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Depends for me.
If they ended badly and no longer talk, then I wouldn't.
If they're still good friends and neither mind, then I would.

haha I sound like a bitch.
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A friend went out with my ex. We're not friends anymore. These two things are linked .
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Depends for me.
If they ended badly and no longer talk, then I wouldn't.
If they're still good friends and neither mind, then I would.
Why do I always agree with you?
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Depends for me.
If they ended badly and no longer talk, then I wouldn't.
If they're still good friends and neither mind, then I would.
Why do I always agree with you?
because we're amazing.
duh =)
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OMGZ. Dez, it's like one of the rules of feminism?!?!?! (it was a joke waiting to happen).

And persoanlly I don't think one should. Unless there is like some seriously strong connection there that you really think could turn into something serious.
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NEW QUESTION!!!!!!!

Can one life be more important or Sacred then another? For example if there was a single Law abiding man with no family or friends and an ex criminal with a child and a partner and one of them had to die, would their status or history come into it?

Discuss.
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No, everyone's equal
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No, everyone's equal
Then I assume you're against the killing of paedophiles, murderers... hell, even megalomaniac dictators?

(Btw, I'm just introducing a new idea into the thread, don't mean to be on the attack of you haha).
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Then I assume you're against the killing of paedophiles, murderers... hell, even megalomaniac dictators?

(Btw, I'm just introducing a new idea into the thread, don't mean to be on the attack of you haha).
Killing murderers etc. yes..two wrongs don't make a right imo. I believe in hell but.
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I've been going out with a friend's ex before I've been in a 2 years relationship. It was fine because, with my closest friends, we said we will never argue over a girl, they're not worth our friendship. So it's fine and nobody ever moaned about it.

So yeah it's fine, it just depends on the context.
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Killing murderers etc. yes..two wrongs don't make a right imo. I believe in hell but.
So Hitler deserved to be alive as much as you?

Maybe I'm more skeptical about it because I'm not religious though, whereas you are (I think?! lol).
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Yes. My life is the sacredest of all.
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