[haggis]

i havee read a few threads on here, about how saffia left her kids etc and they p%%%%%%% me afff,,

I got a job when i was 19 which took me away from my then girlfriend and my 5 months old son for 4nd half months,, so does that make me a bad dad,

then when me and my now wife got together again ive worked away, i worked over in the usa for 10 weeks,@ a time, and getting home for 3 weeks, my daughter was born while i was away, i spent about 3 months if that with her in her first yr, then we had our second kid,again i missed the birth,, and over a 2 yr period i spent around maybe just over 7 months in total with my wee boy,

So does that make me a bad dad.

i worked bloody hard for my family, to give them a decent life,

saffia is doing the same, trying to give her wee ones a decent life,
ok she might not win, but she will get cash for newspaper deals, mag deals, etc, and her kids will get things and get to go to places which they might never had gotten to.

this does not make saffia a bad mum, infact makes her a wonder mum, she is only trying to secure a nice future for her and her kids.

bad mums and dads are the junkie likes, that shoot up and konk out while there wee ones play, or alcoholic mums and dads, who drink there selfs in to a stuper everyday while their kids go hungry, etc

time to get off saffia case. i think

[libra68]

chill out

[Captain.Remy]

If I was in the house I would have already told her she's a bad mum, just like Jennifer last year, for leaving her kids behind her in order to get magazine deals where she will pose topless for a bit of fame and to appear on a TV show which will probably make her feel like sh!t after. Get the bitch out thanks.

[rayheartbliss]

to be honest i see why people dont like her or call her a bad mum!

but i find her interesting, and kinda warming to her.

shes like the aisleyne of this year, only time will tell if she'l rise like aisleyne did.

[haggis]

Originally posted by Captain.Remy
If I was in the house I would have already told her she's a bad mum, just like Jennifer last year, for leaving her kids behind her in order to get magazine deals where she will pose topless for a bit of fame and to appear on a TV show which will probably make her feel like sh!t after. Get the bitch out thanks.

mmmmm you and shopia would make a fine pair, do you have kids,lets say you do.

so your saying you woudnt go into the bb house, then accept deals

libra68

posted on 10-6-2009 at 05:18 PM
chill out

am so chilled i make ice cubes look hot

[mustgetalife]

Haggis, you are obviously a man that cares a lot about your children, but we are talking about up to 14 weeks on a reality show, with no guarantee of any income!
Actually little surprised they put her in, but it doesn't bother we either way it's her life, hey live and let live she has never done me any harm

[yousoboo!]

she's already been through 2 baby fathers though

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : haggis

mmmmm you and shopia would make a fine pair, do you have kids,lets say you do.

so your saying you woudnt go into the bb house, then accept deals

It's not about me being a good pair with Sophia. I wouldn't mind anyway because she stands for what she believes in.
So because I don't have any kids I can't comment on it ? You're digging your hole deeper and deeper. She is just a selfish woman who only thought about her and her 15 minutes of fame. Let's all wait for her topless pictures in tabloids...she's so desperate.

[Z]

I don't think it's fair to call her a bad mum, and she's not that irresponsible, she's left her kids with family - it's not as if she's left them home alone for possibly 14 weeks. I think she's going to be one of the more entertaining housemates of this series, I hope she lasts a few weeks!

[haggis]

nice wee earner for te kids ad her, even if she manages only 30/50 k in deals

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : Zee
I don't think it's fair to call her a bad mum, and she's not that irresponsible, she's left her kids with family - it's not as if she's left them home alone for possibly 14 weeks. I think she's going to be one of the more entertaining housemates of this series, I hope she lasts a few weeks!

I don't dislike her either, well she's not in my top housemates. It's just the way it's being done. I mean, you have kids, you take responsability for it. BB has been on for 10 series, she could have done it before having any kids. See ?

[bansheewails]

Oh give it a rest! The usual, one rule for a man another for a woman! Don't think I could leave mine for that long (if I got the chance!) but it is her decision and why not!

[haggis]

Originally posted by Captain.Remy

It's not about me being a good pair with Sophia. I wouldn't mind anyway because she stands for what she believes in.
So because I don't have any kids I can't comment on it ? You're digging your hole deeper and deeper. She is just a selfish woman who only thought about her and her 15 minutes of fame. Let's all wait for her topless pictures in tabloids...she's so desperate.

selfish woman, wtf, she trying to better her and her kids future, and so what if she goes the topless route, how many folks have went on and done that, until you have kids yourself, you cant possibly know what us mums and dads would sacrafice for a better future for our kids

[buffy950]

Originally posted by libra68
chill out

i agree with you haggis.

[haggis]

Originally posted by Captain.Remy

I don't dislike her either, well she's not in my top housemates. It's just the way it's being done. I mean, you have kids, you take responsability for it. BB has been on for 10 series, she could have done it before having any kids. See ?

sorry when you become a mum or dad yor train of thought totaly changes,

before my kids were born i was footloose and fancy free, never thought about the future, if i had cash on the hip kool, if i never so what, maybe if i had been a wee bit brighter i would thought hey i go in the bb house, and get cash incase i have kids.. save me working my a** of and being apart and leaving them for so long..sorry life dont work like that

[buffy950]

Originally posted by Captain.Remy

I don't dislike her either, well she's not in my top housemates. It's just the way it's being done. I mean, you have kids, you take responsability for it. BB has been on for 10 series, she could have done it before having any kids. See ?

thats a bit harsh is'nt it.

[haggis]

very harsh