[Sticks]

Originally posted by SmokeCrackItsGood

what personal remark are you referring to?

You referred to someone's personal appearance on their avatar. After I posted they seemed to indicate they were not upset by your comment, but it did come across as an Ad Hominem

Originally posted by SmokeCrackItsGood
And i dont need an excuse mate, i havent abandoned my 7 month young baby. Whats your excuse for asking me what my excuse it?

You seemed to have a lot of anger about this for some reason.

I had a similar thread earlier, and my reaction was possibly because of seeing cases from that group I administer on Facebok and comparing it with what this contestant appeared to be doing.

I am trying to understand where you are coming from to see if you also have some displaced anger here.

[fairymoon]

well you can stop calling her now she left bb and is going home

[RAS]

It doesn't surprise me that this woman has got 2 kids with 2 different fathers....im sure she'll be making it a hatrick soon.

There is something about this woman that really makes me hate her.

[SmokeCrackItsGood]

[quote]Originally posted by Fangz

Originally posted by SmokeCrackItsGood
its a sign of the times though...total selfishness and irresponsibility.

Blah blah modern women having rights and not staying in the kitchen where they belong blah blah blah bet she takes it up the **** for no extra charge and so on... [/quo


Saying a mother should not abandon her 7 month old baby for 4 months to seek fame isnt the same as saying mothers should stay in the kitchen! Have you been educated at any level at all lol

[Smithy]

u can all stop wingeing now as shes walked

[SmokeCrackItsGood]

Originally posted by Sticks

You referred to someone's personal appearance on their avatar. After I posted they seemed to indicate they were not upset by your comment, but it did come across as an Ad Hominem

You seemed to have a lot of anger about this for some reason.
are you a new labour bod? Are you serious ?? i said the avatar looked a bit sinister...if u think that might be insulting i suggest you get a slightly thicker skin, or just any skin.
I had a similar thread earlier, and my reaction was possibly because of seeing cases from that group I administer on Facebok and comparing it with what this contestant appeared to be doing.

I am trying to understand where you are coming from to see if you also have some displaced anger here.

[fairymoon]

she has 2 kids the first child father beat her up so she left him she met somebody else after 4 years and he left her for her freind

[Sticks]

Originally posted by fairymoon
well you can stop calling her now she left bb and is going home

There is nothing on DS about this, and that is fairly reliable

Like I said to the OP

Give us a link or withdraw the comment

This comes across as troll-like behaviour, unless you can back this up.

[fairymoon]

its on another post she walked at 8.20

[fairymoon]

i am not a troll its true

[Sticks]

Originally posted by fairymoon
its on another post she walked at 8.20

OK

My apologies

This is the link to the official site

[laurajane]

I cant say too much... but Saffias life hasn't been easy
You'll all find out soon

[SmokeCrackItsGood]

Originally posted by fairymoon
i am not a troll its true

lol, he called you a troll lol

[SmokeCrackItsGood]

hmmmm, sounds like social services have caught up with her....and u thought i was lying lol

[SmokeCrackItsGood]

Originally posted by laurajane
I cant say too much... but Saffias life hasn't been easy
You'll all find out soon

nope u cant can u...cos u dont know anything lol....her life has been made a whole lot easier by entrapping rich men though .

[Miss-red]

Originally posted by SmokeCrackItsGood

A mother has a different bond with a child than a father does, and im a father too. We're not talking about equality at the workplace here!

I agree the bond is completly different with mum she's carried the baby for 9 months a baby needs its mother in a different way than its father not that i'm saying dads are not important because thats not what i'm saying at all what i mean is its a wrench for a 7 month old baby to be seperated from its mother for such a length of time. its not even suggested she went home because of her kids either. i'm glad she's gone and hopes she gets her prioritys right next time!

[laurajane]

Originally posted by SmokeCrackItsGood

nope u cant can u...cos u dont know anything lol....her life has been made a whole lot easier by entrapping rich men though .

No I actually do! So do not 4 one minute try and patronise me

[Saph]

to be honest that is complete tripe

[Appearance_Of_A_Junky]

Originally posted by SmokeCrackItsGood
And obviously anyone currently serving abroad in the forces should be sent home immediately.

Hell yes!, nothing to with children though.

[userboo123]

I AGREE. the baby will not know that she will come back.
how could anyone leave their baby for potentially 2 months when they are just 7 months old
the babys primary bond is with the mother and being looked after by grandparents will be confusin and distressin