[Tom]

Originally posted by SiaSiaSia

we'll see

I wouldn't dream of it now tbh, when I did it I didn't really care about other people (in that way) and just used them to get what I wanted. I was a bit of an evil moron. As soon as I got over that I managed to hold down a longer relationship as well beating my previous record of 6 weeks with 17 months, and on 4 months atm

[TheOfficialAdam]

I would never cheat on my girlfriend. I wouldn't even think about it, i love her to bits.

[kisywisy]

yeah i have but i'm now getting married to the guy i cheated with and having a baby. the other guy i'd only been with for a few months so it was nothing serious anyway

i don't really feel too bad abou it either coz i broke up with him the next day and he didn't seem too heartbroken either

[Benjamin]

nope. I never have.

[Lauren]

Originally posted by kisywisy
yeah i have but i'm now getting married to the guy i cheated with and having a baby. the other guy i'd only been with for a few months so it was nothing serious anyway

i don't really feel too bad abou it either coz i broke up with him the next day and he didn't seem too heartbroken either

Why didn't you break up with him before you cheated? If it meant nothing to either of you, it would've showed more thought to both people (the one you cheated with and on).

I never understand this about people who cheat, if they're willing to cheat, they obviously don't mind hurting their partner - so might as well break up with them first instead of playing games.

[tinkerbell]

Yes recently and I asked why didn't you tell me and he said .....'You didn't ask'......Nice.

[Tom]

Originally posted by Lauren

Why didn't you break up with him before you cheated? If it meant nothing to either of you, it would've showed more thought to both people (the one you cheated with and on).

I never understand this about people who cheat, if they're willing to cheat, they obviously don't mind hurting their partner - so might as well break up with them first instead of playing games.

For some its the thrill of not getting caught

[Fangz]

Originally posted by tinkerbell
Yes recently and I asked why didn't you tell me and he said .....'You didn't ask'......Nice.

You got rid...right?

[x_eztiger_x]

i hate cheating with a passion an i would be broken hearted if i was cheated on, really would but it aint summit u can stop from happenin if ur cheated on the person obviously dont care about u that much an as for me cheating i would never cos then there would be no point in me being in a relationship with my bf, an would hate t if hes cheated on me

[Lauren]

Originally posted by Tom

For some its the thrill of not getting caught

So the thrill of not getting caught comes above a potentially lasting relationship? (Btw not aiming it at you, it's a response to what you said lol).

I don't see why anyone would willingly enter and stay in a relationship to which they know they won't stay committed in. They might aswell just sleep around.

[Tom]

Originally posted by Lauren

So the thrill of not getting caught comes above a potentially lasting relationship? (Btw not aiming it at you, it's a response to what you said lol).

I don't see why anyone would willingly enter and stay in a relationship to which they know they won't stay committed in. They might aswell just sleep around.

I think at a younger age there isn't really an expectation to be in a lasting relationship and it probably isn't as intense as a couple in their mid 20s or 30s, so might not feel the need to stay committed. Or some might just be bored of the original relationship and need something to make it more interesting. I don't really understand the thrill thing though, for me it was never a thrill of not being caught, it just kind of happened.

[Tom4784]

I've never cheated, it's just disrespectful. None of my relationships have been about love and intensity but I would never have cheated on them.

[supernoodles!]

Urgh,yes,and Im so ashamed its the biggest regret of mine,I don`t have that many but yeh,I wouldn`t ever talk to anyone about it because I am really ashamed of it and I would never ever do it again.Its so horrible and sick and I dont even know why I did it because I did feel awful doing it,I felt sick to my stomach yet I still did it.It was a few years ago now and on someone who had cheated on me several times before but that doesn`t make it any better.Just don`t do it people,I know I said I never would and I hate that I actually broke that promise with myself but I guess I`ve moved on from it.
I just think its sick,being cheated on and cheated,I don`t understand people who repeatedly do it because it just made me feel dirty and sick and a bad person. =[

[amy-jayne]

I've never cheated, and never would, you should never say never, but I'd like to think I'd never cheat.
If I was ever in the situation were I was in a relationship and found myself liking somebody else, I would finish the relationship, and wait for a bit out of respect to the person, then be with the person I did like.
I dont see why you need to cheat, if your not happy in a relationship to the point you have to go to someone else, get out of the relationship!

[Ashleee:)]

I never have and never will. Peolpe who cheat are weak or just slutty skanks (sorry to the cheaters).
If you feel the need to sleep with someone else then why bother being in a relationship in the first place? It's completely selfish.
If my boyfriend cheats on me, he knows i will destroy him. (or just his penis)

[amy-jayne]

Originally posted by Ashleee
I never have and never will. Peolpe who cheat are weak or just slutty skanks (sorry to the cheaters).
If you feel the need to sleep with someone else then why bother being in a relationship in the first place? It's completely selfish.
If my boyfriend cheats on me, he knows i will destroy him. (or just his penis)

well said!

[Ramsay]

I was drunkely with one of my best friends while she had a boyfriend if that counts

[GypsyGoth]

Never have cheated but been cheated on twice. Both of them were jerks.

[Annie]

I've cheated on everyone I have ever been with. Not because I am a bitch but for millions of different reasons. I regret doing it because I have also been cheated on and its horrible and heart breaking but for some stupid reason I think its alright for me to do when I am angry

1. I am greedy and love men and male attention
2. When I dont get enough attention from my partner I wander around
3. I was young a lot of the time
4. I fall out with someone and get back at them by cheating

But looking at myself now, being a MILF to be etc.. If I had another partner. I wouldnt really want to cheat because I wouldnt need attention from anyone cos I have my baby and my baby needs me. So its something thats now in the past.

[Sophii3x]

No, I've never cheated and would never. I've been cheated on quite a bit and it's just hurt me so much each time.

[Noel]

Twice when I've been drunk I've kissed one of my close friends, and she tells me she "likes me" etc., but it's just the drink and a bit of fun. I still feel really bad about it though. I see it as, if there are no feelings in it, then it means nothing. The guilt, however, will always be there.