[NolasGirl]

Originally posted by bananarama

.....Appearance is a sign of what a person is like in reality.

That has literally got to be one of the most ridiculous and simplistic things a person could come out with. That appearance is a sign of what a person is like in reality...Most people don't even hold that view..what most people say is that it is quite common for snap judgements to be made based on a persons appearance, but they often turn out to be wrong and the dynamic changes as soon as any deeper presentation of the person comes about.. Even a conversation with a person.. Yeah, maybe if I was interviewing Marcus for a job and he came in less than appropriate clothing etc. I might make a judgement on his hair then... But what in God's name relevance does it hold to his personality on a deeper level??
One of the great things about BB is that we *are* in most cases actually getting to know the nature of the HM on quite a deep level.. to see the person on a human level..and to see them in their worst and also in their best.. So to consistently judge the personality on something as trivial as the way they wear their hair, or their dress sense, just seems extremely superficial to me. It has to be that the criticism of the personality has reflected itself outward superficially on their looks, coz otherwise it doesn't make any sense.