[Razmataz]

Im in a GREAT MOOD.

Passion Searchers - So much to give

[EugeneSully]

how come???

[Razmataz]

Originally posted by EugeneSully
how come???

MSN.

I'll tell you on there.

[EugeneSully]

um ok lol

[Corkie]

dave is the sign of normal

[Razmataz]

Originally posted by corkie
dave is the sign of normal

Dave: dog:
He is the sign of a brighter future.

[EugeneSully]

The futur's bright... the future's orange

[Razmataz]

Dave is grey

[Kaz]

Thank you for apologising Ryan. It's much appreciated.

......... and Dave's over the moon!

[Corkie]

daves running faster then ever

[Razmataz]

cheers guys.
i now wait for stropz

[lily.]

Ok Ryan. Here's my say...(in Green, since you noticed )...

I thought what you did last night was really stupid and immature. However, I have to take into account that you are 17. When I talk to some of the FMs on here, I tend to forget what age they are. For example, Fangz. I talk with her quite a lot, and often forget she is not the same age as me. She has a maturity about her which makes me think of her as a girl in her 20s or 30s. Dan (BB fernzy) also. He doesn't act like an 18 year old. But, I'm getting off topic here...

Getting back to the plot.... I'm not saying you are always immature. Quite the reverse actually. The fact that you make legible posts on here with proper opinions and arguments makes you easy to get along with for FMs of any age. It also makes me forget that you are 17. I am not patronising you but it's not unusual for a 17 year old to make a bad decision. I made plenty at your age. You made an extremely bad one last night, which you are obviously well aware of. But, just because you made a bad decision, for decidedly dodgy reasons, doesn't mean that I will take the strop with you for the rest of your life.

It wont be condescending and say that you did nothing wrong. You did. And you totally p***ed me off. However, for me to lose all respect for you would make me childish in the extreme, since you are 17, I am 32, therefore I should be setting the example here, if you get me?

I am happy to put this behind us and continue on as though it never happened.

First though, I have a few things to say...

Firstly, regarding your confidence issues. You wont resolve them on an internet forum. I understand that you have confidence/esteem issues. Most people do, even if they don't admit it. Try not to let things get to you as much, and try not to take things to heart so much. I can't speak for your personal life or problems in the real world, obviously, nor would I pry into your business, but as for the forum here, I can tell you that if stuff is getting to you, there is an "OFF" switch. You should use it. Don't let people get under your skin so much. Don't let it get to that stage.

Secondly, you do have friends here. We are generally a good bunch I think. Most folk are friendly and considerate. If something is bothering you, just be honest. For example, obviously the Harry Potter thing bothers you for whatever reason. All you had to do was say that it bothers you or upsets you. You don't have to give a reason why. If you clearly state that something is offensive to you, then we will respect that. And if a FM doesn't respect it after you have clearly asked them not to do it, then admin can deal with it. As you know, SMC was having a laugh. I would have done the same. But, neither of us would do it if it genuinely bothered you. That's just nasty.

Lastly, don't be so feckin serious all the time. Believe me. I'm 32, married with 2 kids, and I still take time out to act the a**e. You are young. Be carefree. Enjoy youth. Have fun. Smile, and the world smiles back at you. At the very least, Smile and Stropzy smiles back at you

Now, worship me. You said you only worship women. Well, I'm a woman worthy of worshipping!!!!!

[SMC]

Originally posted by Stropz
Ok Ryan. Here's my say...(in Green, since you noticed )...

I thought what you did last night was really stupid and immature. However, I have to take into account that you are 17. When I talk to some of the FMs on here, I tend to forget what age they are. For example, Fangz. I talk with her quite a lot, and often forget she is not the same age as me. She has a maturity about her which makes me think of her as a girl in her 20s or 30s. Dan (BB fernzy) also. He doesn't act like an 18 year old. But, I'm getting off topic here...

Getting back to the plot.... I'm not saying you are always immature. Quite the reverse actually. The fact that you make legible posts on here with proper opinions and arguments makes you easy to get along with for FMs of any age. It also makes me forget that you are 17. I am not patronising you but it's not unusual for a 17 year old to make a bad decision. I made plenty at your age. You made an extremely bad one last night, which you are obviously well aware of. But, just because you made a bad decision, for decidedly dodgy reasons, doesn't mean that I will take the strop with you for the rest of your life.

It wont be condescending and say that you did nothing wrong. You did. And you totally p***ed me off. However, for me to lose all respect for you would make me childish in the extreme, since you are 17, I am 32, therefore I should be setting the example here, if you get me?

I am happy to put this behind us and continue on as though it never happened.

First though, I have a few things to say...

Firstly, regarding your confidence issues. You wont resolve them on an internet forum. I understand that you have confidence/esteem issues. Most people do, even if they don't admit it. Try not to let things get to you as much, and try not to take things to heart so much. I can't speak for your personal life or problems in the real world, obviously, nor would I pry into your business, but as for the forum here, I can tell you that if stuff is getting to you, there is an "OFF" switch. You should use it. Don't let people get under your skin so much. Don't let it get to that stage.

Secondly, you do have friends here. We are generally a good bunch I think. Most folk are friendly and considerate. If something is bothering you, just be honest. For example, obviously the Harry Potter thing bothers you for whatever reason. All you had to do was say that it bothers you or upsets you. You don't have to give a reason why. If you clearly state that something is offensive to you, then we will respect that. And if a FM doesn't respect it after you have clearly asked them not to do it, then admin can deal with it. As you know, SMC was having a laugh. I would have done the same. But, neither of us would do it if it genuinely bothered you. That's just nasty.

Lastly, don't be so feckin serious all the time. Believe me. I'm 32, married with 2 kids, and I still take time out to act the a**e. You are young. Be carefree. Enjoy youth. Have fun. Smile, and the world smiles back at you. At the very least, Smile and Stropzy smiles back at you

Now, worship me. You said you only worship women. Well, I'm a woman worthy of worshipping!!!!!

Aint reading all that but whatever..i agree,

[lily.]

cheeky wee whippersnapper!!!.. how the devil are ya muh compadre!.

[SMC]

Originally posted by Stropz
cheeky wee whippersnapper!!!.. how the devil are you muh compadre!.

Not too good today stropy, got a huge cut on my knee from football and coming down with a cold i think..plus i got a 12 hour shift at work tomorrow..yourself?

[EugeneSully]

I read it all and I agree. But some of have to be "fecking serious" all the time so people can see exactly how we feel because if we don't, it will not only get worse, it will piss off the victim.

But all in all, well said stropz

[lily.]

Originally posted by SMC

Not too good today stropy, got a huge cut on my knee from football and coming down with a cold i think..plus i got a 12 hour shift at work tomorrow..yourself?

Better than that. No cuts, no cold, no work tomoro. Still a bit PMT-ish, but not as bad as I was yesterday!

Want me to kiss yer boo-boo better?

[SMC]

no but there's something else you can kiss..haha,

[lily.]

Really. Control yourself. I know I'm irresistable, but try to restrain yourself somewhat..

[SMC]

Actually, i take it back..Forgot you have PMT..you'll probs rip it off

[lily.]

Wouldn't be the first time

[Fangz]

Thanks for the apology Glads, I wouldn't have put myself in the same situation you did, but if I had, I'm not sure I'd have had the guts to apologize. I appreciate that.

[Razmataz]

Just one thing.

Everyone here at college knows me better than anyone of you.
And thats for obvious reasons accordingly.
But when something bothers me i walk away and i just ignore it and i know i wont have to face a fight or scuffle of words.
But on here i have the protection of my computer chair to help me.
And i know im never gonna meet any of you lot unless we all do a meet up thing/convention.
I know and im sure i'll eventually be happy again personal and on here. and when time comes to it ill be back to normal.
This last week has been a crud one for most people i know, i dont know what has happened this week, my friends around me are now ALL single...this includes me and its quite depressing when i can see the girls window from mine.
But all said and done...life moves on....plenty more fish in the sea. and another last point to make.
This thread can now be shut. because i know the thing can now be forgotten..

Nizlopi - JCB Song

"Dont drive your desires down the wrong road"

[Legend]

What u actually done rong though???

I made a new account though cause my old one was during bb6 and i didn't like the name so made this one lol.

Whats rong with that though or am i missing something?