[InOne]

I think Women are just as likely to cheat really

[LeatherTrumpet]

Originally Posted by Ross

how do you know it's true that men cheat more? on what statistics? you can't say men cheat more than women... maybe a few statistics dotted around the place say it, but on the whole they can't examine EVERY relationship.

sure, men are in the spotlight for cheating more ie. John Terry, Ashley Cole etc. (I'm using celebrities as an example here) but where's to say that everyday life among normal folk, the women isn't doing the dirty?


Forgive me if I'm wrong and I do apologise if I am but it just seems you are attacking homosexuals alot recently and hiding it behind ludacris debates.

well if you can prove that then go ahead and list all my attacking homosexual posts

or better still report me listing them all and let admin decide

if you cannot then stop crying homophone every time someone disagrees or challenges your world-view

[Tom]

Originally Posted by Fom

Thats annoying me too.. I know for a fact I would never cheat and I know lots of other guys with the same thought!

You say that now ...

I've thought that in the past but got bored and ended up cheating

Never say never.

[Wildcat!]

Individually each one of yall have their standards, but naturally. Men have a higher sex drive than women. ONe of the main reason socially, is men are usually in position of power. But since society is equaling now, thats why more women cheat these days.

People also say men think of sex more often. I dont know how true that is, but thats what they say.
And pregnancy is another factor as well. Women tend to be more careful about cheating, because they are the ones who will get pregnant. So they tend to want it to be with the person who will be around. Of course, thtas also been somewhat nulified, with contreaception.

[Ross]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

well if you can prove that then go ahead and list all my attacking homosexual posts

or better still report me listing them all and let admin decide

if you cannot then stop crying homophone every time someone disagrees or challenges your world-view

I've never once cried homophobe. That's just my view, you hide behind these stupid debates and yes this is a stupid debate.

Why do I think this because I replied to your post with almost two paragraphs in reply to this debate and you reply back with only a response to me simply saying you attack homosexuals.

You have just proven my point.

[Shasown]

You have taken a statistical average, that is regarded by some as the norm (men thinking about sex every 7 seconds) and applied it to all.

In a relationship that works something clicks between the two people, there is attraction between them and dependant on the relationship there is a mutual fulfilling of what the other person requires. There is also a compromise between them in some way.

Are you suggesting homosexual men cant fulfill the emotional requirements of thier partner, or that they are incapable of being faithful?

[Tom]

Originally Posted by Shasown

You have taken a statistical average, that is regarded by some as the norm (men thinking about sex every 7 seconds) and applied it to all.

In a relationship that works something clicks between the two people, there is attraction between them and dependant on the relationship there is a mutual fulfilling of what the other person requires. There is also a compromise between them in some way.

Are you suggesting homosexual men cant fulfill the emotional requirements of thier partner, or that they are incapable of being faithful?

Gay men have similar brains to females and vice versa, so using that its actually lesbian couples at most risk of cheating (if we're generalising).

[cupid stunt]

dont no about gay weddings but they shudnt be allowed to adopt kids

[Shasown]

Originally Posted by Tom

Gay men have similar brains to females and vice versa, so using that its actually lesbian couples at most risk of cheating (if we're generalising).

Wouldnt know about that Tom.


Havent dissected one. (A gay male brain that is)


Yet!!!

[setanta]

Originally Posted by cupid stunt

dont no about gay weddings but they shudnt be allowed to adopt kids

Oh, please don't be opening that one up again. But actually what brings you to that conclusion anyway?

[cupid stunt]

Originally Posted by setanta

Oh, please don't be opening that one up again. But actually what brings you to that conclusion anyway?

because to start with it the poor kid wud get bullied to **** at school

[setanta]

Originally Posted by cupid stunt

because to start with it the poor kid wud get bullied to **** at school

Children can be bullied for many reasons. Are we to shave our kids hair if they're ginger before going to school? Deny them braces even if they're absolutely necessary? That's not the way to destroy bullying; that's the way to fear it. Nothing positive or productive comes from employing such a strategy.

[Shasown]

Originally Posted by setanta

Children can be bullied for many reasons. Are we to shave our kids hair if they're ginger before going to school? Deny them braces even if they're absolutely necessary? That's not the way to destroy bullying; that's the way to fear it. Nothing positive or productive comes from employing such a strategy.

Will go with the head shaving for ginges, can it also be extended to adults please?

[cupid stunt]

Homophobic language removed - Darenn.

If I see much more of it, you will receive a warning

[setanta]

Originally Posted by Shasown

Will go with the head shaving for ginges, can it also be extended to adults please?

Hold it there baby - I was a strawberry blonde back then.

[setanta]

Originally Posted by cupid stunt

either way kids shudnt be growin up watchin 2 ******s kissing and prancing around like fairys its not normal

And there we go. This could have all been avoided if you had abandoned pretence and revealed the true extent of your prejudice from the start.

[Shasown]

Originally Posted by setanta

What it there baby - I was a strawberry blonde back then.

PMSL. Well thats okay then. If you were Strawberry Blonde, you werent a ginge then were you?

[setanta]

Originally Posted by Shasown

PMSL. Well thats okay then. If you were Strawberry Blonde, you werent a ginge then were you?

I had my moments of it when I was very young lol. Then it went more blonde than red. Had no trouble with bullies cuz I was athletic and could kick the shi$e outta them if was needed. Wasn't needed that often though. lol

[Arneldo]

To sum up ...

[Shasown]

Originally Posted by setanta

I had my moments of it when I was very young lol. Then it went more blonde than red. Had no trouble with bullies cuz I was athletic and could kick the shi$e outta them if was needed. Wasn't needed that often though. lol

Thats the thing, kids can be evil little shits with each other, until someone has had enough and puts their foot down.

[setanta]

Originally Posted by Shasown

Thats the thing, kids can be evil little shits with each other, until someone has had enough and puts their foot down.

Exactly. I hate bullying of any kind though so I tried to stop it wherever I saw it to be honest with you, not only when it involved me. Despise that type of crap.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

We are constantly told that men think about sex every 7 seconds, that they are non biologically monogamous, that our make up is to procreate with as many as possible to spread the gene pool etc

Women are different and need to keep a mate etc they counterbalance the male urges etc and thus the 2 are well suited.

So what hope do 2 men who are homosexual have of having a steady and happy relationship. Should this whole gay "wedding" thing be scrapped as it is a non starter or do 2 men being together by law somehow biologically change?

Surely lesbian "weddings" make much more sense?

But even If most men have a higher sex drive than most woman that doesn't mean that they're more likely to cheat on there partner, infact it could mean that a man/man relationship would work better because, in theory, they would both want sex alot and would have a very active sex life where as If a man was with a woman and wanted sex more than his partner than maybe he'd be more likely to cheat on her because he wasn't getting as much as he'd like at home?

[Fom]

Originally Posted by ***********

I wish i was invited to a lesbian wedding... imagine all the lesbians there :O:O:O:O:O:O there is a heaven on earth ahahahha

You do realise that with them being lesbians (real life lesbians) they will not be attracted to you and they will not let you watch.

[Fom]

Originally Posted by Tom

You say that now ...

I've thought that in the past but got bored and ended up cheating

Never say never.

No I know I will never cheat, My dad cheated on my mum and I don't think I could ever do that to someone. If you get bored why not just end the relationship? There is no reason to cheat, if you are bored of the relationship get out of it don't go messing around behind peoples backs.

Its what cowards and pathetic men do.

[Tom]

Originally Posted by Fom

No I know I will never cheat, My dad cheated on my mum and I don't think I could ever do that to someone. If you get bored why not just end the relationship? There is no reason to cheat, if you are bored of the relationship get out of it don't go messing around behind peoples backs.

Its what cowards and pathetic men do.

Because you don't want to hurt them and cheating is the lesser of two evils when you're in that mind set.