[setanta]

Originally Posted by MrGaryy

Yeah I understand what you mean but if I were you I wouldn't let it bother me. I mean at the end of the day it's all fonts and avatars. These people don't know you and make no difference to your life so **** em, I say.

[I say this not knowing who they are so sorry if I just insulted someone I like. But then again, they're obviously a lame mess, so I don't really care if that offended you or not.]

It's not particularly bothering me really; I just think they've proven to me how gimpy they are, you know that way?

[Jessica.]

Originally Posted by setanta

Says your one who had no problem talking to me about 2 days ago. Grow up hun, really.

I always have a problem with you, I was just being civilized because I don't want an argument all the time. I would prefer of you called me by my name, your little pet names are creepy.

[MissKittyFantastico]

If you dont care why have you made a thread about the whole issue?

You're the one being pathetic at this point over something you claim not to even be bothered about.

[setanta]

Originally Posted by Kitty

If you dont care why have you made a thread about the whole issue?

You're the one being pathetic at this point over something you claim not to even be bothered about.

I'm not being pathetic at all... I'm just proving how pathetic you lot are.

[MrGaryy]

Well I may as well be nosy. I assume this is about Michelle, Niamh, Jords, ect. crew?

[MissKittyFantastico]

Originally Posted by setanta

I'm not being pathetic at all... I'm just proving how pathetic you lot are.

Yes but you're not bothered by it so you say, so why make a whole very thinly veiled thread looking for attention on a subject that doesn't even concern anyone else? Totally unnecessary and like I said obviously either looking for an argument or for affirmation from other FM's on how you feel you've been slighted in some way. Why not just leave it alone and get on with it.

[InOne]

James, I thought you knew the reasons anyway? Why bitch about it now. What point are you trying to make by posting this thread?

[Jessica.]

Originally Posted by MrGaryy

Well I may as well be nosy. I assume this is about Michelle, Niamh, Jords, ect. crew?

I honestly didn't have a clue what it was about until like a minute ago, Jords isn't involved at all, I wasn't but I seem to have been dragged into it somehow.

[setanta]

Originally Posted by Kitty

Yes but you're not bothered by it so you say, so why make a whole very thinly veiled thread looking for attention on a subject that doesn't even concern anyone else? Totally unnecessary and like I said obviously either looking for an argument or for affirmation from other FM's on how you feel you've been slighted in some way. Why not just leave it alone and get on with it.

Because I think it's interesting how a group of people will turn their backs on a person just because of the say so of one particular person, that's all. I think it's totally necessary to highlight it, particularly when you lot had no problem with me being in that chatroom prior to this. It's shameful for all of you. you know this!

[MrGaryy]

[Smithy]

[setanta]

Originally Posted by InOne

James, I thought you knew the reasons anyway? Why bitch about it now. What point are you trying to make by posting this thread?

I'm posting it because of the very fact that I know the reasons for it.

[Jessica.]

Originally Posted by MrGaryy

[MissKittyFantastico]

Originally Posted by setanta

Because I think it's interesting how a group of people will turn their backs on a person just because of the say so of one particular person, that's all. I think it's totally necessary to highlight it, particularly when you lot had no problem with me being in that chatroom prior to this. It's shameful for all of you. you know this!

Well obviously people care more about 'a particular person' and how they feel than they do about someone who has had numerous arguments and been quite frankly vile to the rest of the people in there over recent months. Yes you came in and chatted on a couple of occasions but at the end of the day if 'said person' feels so uncomfortable that they wont chat with their friends as they usually do on a regular basis, then it's a pretty easy decision for people to make on where their loyalties lie really.

Anyway like you said, you don't care so I really do fail to understand why this is even still being discussed here.

[Shasown]

James it all depends on the circumstances, what was done and what was said.

I still like you though, couldnt give a **** about your political beliefs, football associations, musical tastes, or your criminal record.

You are right in that some people on this forum and in real life tend to behave like sheep and will go with someone elses opinion, but hey, were they really your friend in that case?

[setanta]

Originally Posted by Kitty

Well obviously people care more about 'a particular person' and how they feel than they do about someone who has had numerous arguments and been quite frankly vile to the rest of the people in there over recent months. Yes you came in and chatted on a couple of occasions but at the end of the day if 'said person' feels so uncomfortable that they wont chat with their friends as they usually do on a regular basis, then it's a pretty easy decision for people to make on where their loyalties lie really.

Anyway like you said, you don't care so I really do fail to understand why this is even still being discussed here.

Yes, so why didn't you highlight that on the many ocassions I was in ********? You're fencing here Michelle. You're bringing other situations into the scenario that have been dealt with, just like Niamh has done. This is a forum, people argue sometimes and people deal with it. This, on the otherhand, is crazy.

[setanta]

Originally Posted by Shasown

James it all depends on the circumstances, what was done and what was said.

I still like you though, couldnt give a **** about your political beliefs, football associations, musical tastes, or your criminal record.

You are right in that some people on this forum and in real life tend to behave like sheep and will go with someone elses opinion, but hey, were they really your friend in that case?

That's what I'm trying to understand Shasown. We've had our arguments in the past but I still read your comments and try to get involved with your conversations. I bare no ill towards you. But when somebody is ostracized for no reason other than the fact that they've crossed swords with one particular person (an altercation that I've apologized for by the way) then I have to take a stand.

[MissKittyFantastico]

Originally Posted by setanta

Yes, so why didn't you highlight that on the many ocassions I was in ********? You're fencing here Michelle. You're bringing other situations into the scenario that have been dealt with, just like Niamh has done. This is a forum, people argue sometimes and people deal with it. This, on the otherhand, is crazy.

No I'm not, I'm telling you straight what the issue here is. People have chosen a side and are sticking with it, end of. No fencing or anything, that's it. And considering your past treatment of the people involved, I'd say that was a pretty easy and logical choice when it came down to the crunch. Niamh has done nothing wrong to any of us and is counted as a friend by everyone there, you on the other hand have given everyone reason at some time to dislike you. So when it came down to making a choice it was pretty darn easy. End of the matter.

[setanta]

Originally Posted by Kitty

No I'm not, I'm telling you straight what the issue here is. People have chosen a side and are sticking with it, end of. No fencing or anything, that's it. And considering your past treatment of the people involved, I'd say that was a pretty easy and logical choice when it came down to the crunch. Niamh has done nothing wrong to any of us and is counted as a friend by everyone there, you on the other hand have given everyone reason at some time to dislike you. So when it came down to making a choice it was pretty darn easy. End of the matter.

Are you really going to get into treatment here? This was one night, that's it, where i lost the rag because I'd been accused of so many hideous things. I'm sorry Michelle, but that's a fact. I lost the run of myself that night because I'd been accused of so much, incorrectly.

[setanta]

Anyway, what I'm talking about. lets get to the crunch. You had no problem talking to me before she came along................ do I have to go on?

[MissKittyFantastico]

Originally Posted by setanta

Are you really going to get into treatment here? This was one night, that's it, where i lost the rag because I'd been accused of so many hideous things. I'm sorry Michelle, but that's a fact. I lost the run of myself that night because I'd been accused of so much, incorrectly.

I'm not talking about one night James, I'm talking about how you've been with pretty much everyone in there at different times over the past 6 months or so That is why it was very easy to choose between speaking to you in there and you feeling all fine and dandy and Niamh not wanting to speak in there because of you. That's the end of it.

[Smithy]

You were really mean to Stu to James

[Shasown]

Originally Posted by setanta

That's what I'm trying to understand Shasown. We've had our arguments in the past but I still read your comments and try to get involved with your conversations. I bare no ill towards you. But when somebody is ostracized for no reason other than the fact that they've crossed swords with one particular person (an altercation that I've apologized for by the way) then I have to take a stand.

I bare no ill towards towards you either, and appreciate its mutual, we both fervantly believe things that are polar to each other yet we can still find mutual respect and a common ground.

As for crossing swords, **** mate i upset shed loads on here everyday, I make no apology for most of my postings. Even when I do apologise in most cases I coudnt really give a monkeys, I know I am right. Just as you do.

The English team is ****, who cares now, I said pretty much the same as you did cept I support the wankers. We both hate the hype built up around them. Yet we both see it from different sides. In the end, it doint mean nothing, there are bigger things to argue over.

[setanta]

Originally Posted by Kitty

I'm not talking about one night James, I'm talking about how you've been with pretty much everyone in there at different times over the past 6 months or so That is why it was very easy to choose between speaking to you in there and you feeling all fine and dandy and Niamh not wanting to speak in there because of you. That's the end of it.

And? And did we get on after that? And did we have a problem? And was I online with you for X amount of hours after that, chuckling away and having a good laugh? And did I apologize for one night were I lost the head?

You're bringing up various events to substantiate your banning of me and they don't hold water. And that's a fact.

[setanta]

Originally Posted by Shasown

I bare no ill towards towards you either, and appreciate its mutual, we both fervantly believe things that are polar to each other yet we can still find mutual respect and a common ground.

As for crossing swords, **** mate i upset shed loads on here everyday, I make no apology for most of my postings. Even when I do apologise in most cases I coudnt really give a monkeys, I know I am right. Just as you do.

The English team is ****, who cares now, I said pretty much the same as you did cept I support the wankers. We both hate the hype built up around them. Yet we both see it from different sides. In the end, it doint mean nothing, there are bigger things to argue over.

ExactafEmkimondo my friend.