[Razmataz]

Ok!
The situation is difficult.
My friends closest friend, has commited sucide.
And now the friend is thinking about it to.
If she dies....I don't know where to turn to.
I'd have no idea.
I'd probably do the same.
And I don't want to.

She talks to me like nobody has ever before.
She gives me that buzz only a girlfriend can give. [if you get my understanding]
She makes me feel wanted, and Only my family do that. apart from her.

I'm confused.
What should I do?

[MarkWaldorf]

Oh My God, I so sorry.

Try talking to this girl, explain to her to not do it. Tell her how you feel

[Razmataz]

Originally posted by BB06
Oh My God, I so sorry.

Try talking to this girl, explain to her to not do it. Tell her how you feel

I've tried this...I've sent her numorous stuff.
I've talked to her loads.
She has gone on vacation to Maryland. For a week.

I'd be stupid to think she'd do it there. without me having the chance to say goodbye.

[MarkWaldorf]

Aww Im sure shes fine, If she's a true friend will she say Goodbye ( Didnt mean that in a threatening or Rude way)

[Razmataz]

Originally posted by BB06
Aww I'm sure shes fine, If she's a true friend will she say Goodbye ( Didnt mean that in a threatening or Rude way)

If she didn't i'd be an emotional wreck for a significant period of time.

I don't know what i'd do.

[MarkWaldorf]

Is she the girl in your sig?

[Razmataz]

Originally posted by BB06
Is she the girl in your sig?

No.

If she went...i'd be gone by now.

[MarkWaldorf]

Aw Dont think like that, I dont think she would do that away from home and everyone. She probs just needs some time alone

[Razmataz]

Originally posted by BB06
Aw Dont think like that, I dont think she would do that away from home and everyone. She probs just needs some time alone

When other stuff has happened in my life....I can't help but think like that!

[MarkWaldorf]

Originally posted by Gladders

When other stuff has happened in my life....I can't help but think like that!

Being honest I could actually understand that

[Razmataz]

Originally posted by BB06

Being honest I could actually understand that

The thing is....apart from this...My life is absoloutely amazing.

[MarkWaldorf]

Originally posted by Gladders

The thing is....apart from this...My life is absoloutely amazing.

Then why let one little thing put you down? Maybe she just needs some alone time, then when she comes back sort it out. She probably feels this way aswell, her life maybe amazing aswell, just this one thing getting her down

[Razmataz]

I'm sorry but this isn't little.

It's got us at the time life when life Seemed perfect. thats why it's had such a blow.

[MarkWaldorf]

Ohhh Sorry

[Tanser_Man]

Tell her to stop being silly.

If she's seen somebody die thats close to her, she'll know the grief and torment it does to people... having experienced it with her friend. For her then to even think about killing herself and then spreading that grief and torment to her own circle of friends and family would be silly.

It's like a domino effect and it's upto her to stop it from happening, people will keep getting even more hurt.

Does she really think her friend would want her to kill herself, solely on the fact that she did?

I know death can be a hard thing to overcome but she just needs to understand suicide shouldn't be an opinion especially having moarned a friend through the same process.

Just make sure she's on the straight and narrow... and try your best to make her laugh and be happy.

The rest is down to her.

[Razmataz]

Originally posted by Tanser_Man
Tell her to stop being silly.

If she's seen somebody die thats close to her, she'll know the grief and torment it does to people... having experienced it with her friend. For her then to even think about killing herself and then spreading that grief and torment to her own circle of friends and family would be silly.

It's like a domino effect and it's upto her to stop it from happening, people will keep getting even more hurt.

Does she really think her friend would want her to kill herself, solely on the fact that she did?

I know death can be a hard thing to overcome but she just needs to understand suicide shouldn't be an opinion especially having moarned a friend through the same process.

Just make sure she's on the straight and narrow... and try your best to make her laugh and be happy.

The rest is down to her.

Thanks Tanser.....I'm gonna give her a [free ring] in a bit...and make sure she is ok...and talk to her....crack and couple of jokes. and stuff =)

Cheers.

[Tanser_Man]

A ring

I didn't think I mentioned marriage!

[Razmataz]

Originally posted by Tanser_Man
A ring

I didn't think I mentioned marriage!

Phonecall hahha.
She gave me the hotel number before she went Yesterday.

I will give it a ring after 9.