[Chickie]

To start with I think you got the topic wrong. Should have been John James: Awful Boyfriend Material.

So let me get this straight. Just because she is close to him she should abide by everything he says and not have an opinion is that right?
She should just be a good little women who nods and says yes John James, I totally agree with everything you say John James... Pfffff

What world do you live in? Do women in relationships not have the right to speak their mind where you come from?

I will stand by my man in pretty much any situation. But if he is making a twat of himself, is out of line, or is just being a argumentative dick, be dammed I will just sit there listen and nod. I would tell him so. And if he really loves you/her he will listen and take on board what you say. I am not saying he will change over it, but he should take it on board. John James doesn't, he just continues to argue and be a dick.

As an Aussie I am embarrassed by this twat. Sure he does have a few nice qualities that come to the surface on a rare, rare occasion, but overall he is a bully and a *****. My god, when he argues he doesn't even make sense, it's cringe worthy to watch.

My advise to Josie would be: Josie run... Run like you have never run before and don't look back.

I really hope he does move to the UK when this is over, (sorry to lumber him with you guys, I'm sure you don't want him either...lol).