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11-11-2010, 06:44 PM | #1 | |||
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retro physical
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11-11-2010, 06:48 PM | #2 | |||
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I have had the same trouble with a member on this forum, he goes by the name of " Locke " everyone knows he has a wild crush on me.. i have tried to tell him many times that i am straight but he won't have it.. Dirty bastard he is
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11-11-2010, 06:48 PM | #3 | |||
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I think you just need to tell him straight that your not interested and he needs to leave you alone :/
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11-11-2010, 06:49 PM | #4 | ||
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oh fack off
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Report him to the police, quite simply. Better to be safe than sorry as they always say
Sorry to hear about this by the way. Would freak me the **** out. |
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11-11-2010, 06:50 PM | #5 | |||
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Locke.
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I have had the same trouble with a member on this forum, he goes by the name of " Novo " everyone knows he has a wild crush on me.. i have tried to tell him many times that i am straight but he won't have it.. Apparently he has done things like this with other members and scared them away from the forum (conzors, and loukas) Dirty bastard he is |
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11-11-2010, 06:51 PM | #6 | ||
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Sounds really creepy.
I would just confront him about it, tell him how much of a freak he is, and if it continues go to the police :/
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11-11-2010, 06:52 PM | #7 | |||
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Gatorade me, Bitch!
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Don't you have any dodgy mates who could threaten him?
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11-11-2010, 06:55 PM | #8 | ||
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Be careful. He could try spike you the creep he sounds.
Tell him to get lost. If he is persistent consider avoiding him or contacting the police. |
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11-11-2010, 06:58 PM | #9 | |||
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Bloody hell, that sounds terrible :/
I'd either talk to a friend and get them to tell him how you feel, or if you're really worried call the police. Like someone else said, better safe than sorry. Hope you're okay
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11-11-2010, 07:00 PM | #10 | |||
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Next time he decides to follow you, let him follow you straight to the Police station. If I were you I would report it the police and see what advice they can give you about it, I was watching a programme on TV recently actually about stalking laws, I think it was an American show so the same laws probably don't apply in Britain but you should find out from the police what the laws are
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11-11-2010, 07:01 PM | #11 | |||
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The trouble with stalkers is that they are delusional and will believe what they want to believe. Stalking has now been recognised as a criminal offence, so I would tell him that you will report him to the police if he contacts you or follows you one more time and if he does, follow through. What can start off as innocent infatuation can quickly become something far more sinister once the stalker is rejected.
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11-11-2010, 07:03 PM | #12 | |||
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Gatorade me, Bitch!
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-gives Daren some constructive advice in MSN on how to f.uck people up-
LoL
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11-11-2010, 07:19 PM | #13 | |||
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Report him to the police. That type of behaviour is not normal. He could possibly be a murderer, you never know. Report him.
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11-11-2010, 07:37 PM | #14 | |||
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Just tell him to **** off. You're too soft just saying to leave you alone.
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11-11-2010, 08:08 PM | #15 | |||
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It's lacroix darling
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What a reassuring post. O_o
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11-11-2010, 10:24 PM | #16 | |||
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Get a restraining order.
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11-11-2010, 10:33 PM | #17 | ||
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Stalk him back.
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12-11-2010, 07:09 PM | #18 | |||
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Thanks for all the support guys, your opinions have defo helped.
My friend's sister is an office in the same place I work, so he asked me for details and she's registered it on the system. She said that an officer usually lingers around the area anyway and will pop in now and again at closing time to check I'm okay which is reassuring. We serve them a lot so I know them fairly well as it is. so if he turns up then I've got them, which is reassuring. Hopefully this'll put an end to it :/ Thanks again guys <3 Love the idea of walking straight into the police station haha! <3
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12-11-2010, 09:18 PM | #19 | |||
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i wish i had a stalker
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12-11-2010, 09:21 PM | #20 | |||
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is he hot? il take him off your hands
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12-11-2010, 09:45 PM | #21 | |||
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He's not, no
& trust me, you don't want this. I'd have joked the same thing had it happened to someone else, but it is quite scary..
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13-11-2010, 08:42 PM | #22 | |||
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16-11-2010, 01:46 PM | #23 | |||
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Obviously do the logical things, always stay in public and have your wits about you. You've got the police on side in a way and you and people around you know what he looks like so you should be ok.
Hope he has kept out the way since you last posted |
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16-11-2010, 02:07 PM | #24 | |||
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Tell the lad you are not interested in him now nor because of his behaviour will you ever be interested.
Whilst local police are aware and will help by turning up at your work etc. You should get a notebook and log down as accurately as possible when he has turned up near you etc. Heres the important bit while you log this detail down also note how you are feeling about the situation, so if he turns up at your uni and that scares or worries you log that fact down. Also if his stalking gets so bad that you ever decide to stay in when you would normally have gone out etc, if you change travel plans, routes etc because of his behaviour. |
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16-11-2010, 04:17 PM | #25 | ||
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I'd try telling him again that you aren't interested again, if he still keeps hanging around go to the police and get a restraining order. Be careful though he does sound a bit off. Maybe in the mean time you can tell a tutor at Uni so they can put an alert out or something, I'm not sure how it works at University but if you tell them I'm sure they'll tell the security guards to keep an eye out and such.
I'd probably try and keep your friends close when you're out and about and make your facebook private and such. It's probably overkill but it's better to be safe then sorry. I hope things get better, he sounds creepy as hell. |
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