[lostalex]

Originally Posted by kazanne

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so if someone jumped up, excited about a gift they THOUGHT you'd given them, and hugged you, you wouldn't point out immediately that you had nothing to do with the gift?

You think that just being "akward during the hug" would be explaination enuf?? really?

I'm sorry, but NO. If i was in Aaron's position, I would have IMMEDIATELY explained, "don't thank me, i didn't get these gifts for you, jay and lousie got them for you".

and i certainly wouldn't have condemned Jay and Louise for their good deeds. If I trully believed in my convictions that it was too much money to spend, I would tell both Tom and Alex right away, that I have other commitments in life, and I couldn't spend this money on you.

I'm sure tom and alex would understand. I certainly wouldn't just continue akward hugs, and then create a grand conspiracy around Jay and Louise that some how distorts things into making MYSELF the victim, the way Aaron did.

Aaron came up with the conspiracy because he felt GUILTY about not getting them a gift. Simple as.