[CharlieO]

We understand, we all need some place to vent.
When you have parents like that is just is so soul destroying, especially when you have people around you who have the perfect family and we see on tv where families are all supposed to unconditionally love each other, and we just wish we had that ourselves.

Be happy you have a dad like you do though, he sounds very nice make sure you keep a family bond between him and your other siblings because losing it all is horrible.
It will be over soon enough though, you can move out and try start a life of your own and you can design it how you want, without all this stress. You just need to get through this last bit.

[Ninastar]

thank you so much Charlie that really means alot

[CharlieO]

I know there isn't really anything any of us can do but we call care for you Caitlin and people on here are there for you even if it isn't a typical way of getting support.

[Petershaw1984]

As a parent of 2 daughters I just feel soo sad for you and your situation . I hope ad pray things get better for you and your lovely family soon.

One thing I'm learning is that adult life is hard very hard. Every day is a new challenge .

[Ninastar]

she locked me and my sister out and when we called my dad she came downstairs and was like oh, so an idiot let you in?

she's listening to everything we say to each other.

and it looks like we will be moving to america afterall

[michael21]

Originally Posted by Ninastar

she locked me and my sister out and when we called my dad she came downstairs and was like oh, so an idiot let you in?

she's listening to everything we say to each other.

and it looks like we will be moving to america afterall

america will you still be on this site

[CharlieO]

Originally Posted by Ninastar

she locked me and my sister out and when we called my dad she came downstairs and was like oh, so an idiot let you in?

she's listening to everything we say to each other.

and it looks like we will be moving to america afterall

Is that a good thing? I know you love it there.

Is it to get away from her or actually your whole family going. I suggest you should maybe try get your mum to see a doctor if she is acting that irrational. But I know it isn't as easy as that so I just hope you stay safe.

[Ninastar]

we've told her that we'd support her and that we want to help her but she doesn't want help

and yeah It's a good thing but it's so scary and kinda sad to think that we'd be leaving her behind

[CharlieO]

Yea that is scary, but maybe it is for the best. If she gets some time properly alone she may realise what she has lost and have some time to help herself and maybe she will get better and in the future things can be good again.