[lostalex]

Originally Posted by fruit_cake

sorry to be a bit nosy but those two seem a bit like opposites to me, if you have a friend who you could ditch to further yourself which would you choose Alex???

further my self how? I don't do vague.

If you ask a specific question i'll answer it.

[fruit_cake]

Originally Posted by lostalex

further my self how? I don't do vague.

um.. it just seems to me that loyalties can sometimes be broken because people take opportunities where there is a conflict of interest. I dunno, something like, your friend is the lead role in a play, but you want the role and to get there you need to step over the top of your friend or something like that.

[Marc]

3 Good:

1. I try my hardest to make people laugh because I know laughter and pleasure from laughter is probably one of the best feelings in the world.
2. I'm fairly good at playing strategic games and believe I'd be good in reality TV shows such as Survivor.
3.I mean a lot to my friends for some reason.

3 Bad:

1. I really don't like myself most of the time (covers most of it)
2. I'm lazy and unambitious and as a result I do not excel in much academically.
3. Over sensitive and can be really bitchy as a result.

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by fruit_cake

um.. it just seems to me that loyalties can sometimes be broken because people take opportunities where there is a conflict of interest. I dunno, something like, your friend is the lead role in a play, but you want the role and to get there you need to step over the top of your friend or something like that.

aww, what a very innocent scenario, that's cute.

If i was the better actor, and i deserved the role then yes i;'d do whatever it took to aquire it. It's not my fault that my friend isn't as good an actor as me, and there's no reason for me to feel any kind of shame or guilt for it. But i'd still be a loyal friend and console that friend and support them as much as i could.

If my friend chose to resent me for it, well there's nothing i can do about that, it would just show their own insecurities, and that's got nothing to do with me. If i took it, then it didn't really belong to them to begin with. You don't know my friends, but i assure you, they would feel the same way.

It;'s like war. A country only owns the land that it can defend. If you can't defend the land that you own, then it's not really yours!

When you own something, you protect it.

[Niall]

Best:
-Organised (when I want to be).
-Friendly.
-Caring.

Worst:
-I can be unemotional and cold at times.
-Annoying.
-Unsocial/introverted at times.

[mizzy25]

best
funny ( ive been told)
tactful
friendly

worst
i moan a lot
im very messy
i can be a bitch

[joeysteele]

I guess 3 good points that others seem to really like in me are,

1, Friendly
2, Tolerant/fair,Always try to see others side of things.
3, Trustworthy,if I say I will be somewhere or do something I will, ensuring my word is a bond to me.

Bad points.

1, I can seem detached,even to people who really know me.
2, I go on and on too much, making a point, saying too much rather than saying what I need to in far less words and sentences.
3, I am way too sensitive, sensitivity is a good thing too but I am over sensitive a lot of the time.

[michael21]

[Shaun]

Originally Posted by Suze

Why is opinionated looked on as a bad quality by some of you? Being opinionated can be a good thing a lot of the time surely? It means you have your own mind and are strong in your belief.

Was just scrolling through the thread and was about to make this point :/ it's a good thing if anything.

Anyway mine:
Positive:
- Talkative
- Witty
- Thoughtful

Negative:
- Stubborn
- Lazy
- Impatient

[michael21]

Originally Posted by Shaun

Was just scrolling through the thread and was about to make this point :/ it's a good thing if anything.

Anyway mine:
Positive:
- Talkative
- Witty
- Thoughtful

Negative:
- Stubborn
- Lazy
- Impatient

you only got one wrong well done

[King Gizzard]

I'd like to think

1. Friendly
2. Weird
3. Cautious

1. Lazy
2. Annoying
3. Moany

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by joeysteele

I guess 3 good points that others seem to really like in me are,

1, Friendly
2, Tolerant/fair,Always try to see others side of things.
3, Trustworthy,if I say I will be somewhere or do something I will, ensuring my word is a bond to me.

Bad points.

1, I can seem detached,even to people who really know me.
2, I go on and on too much, making a point, saying too much rather than saying what I need to in far less words and sentences.
3, I am way too sensitive, sensitivity is a good thing too but I am over sensitive a lot of the time.

...LOL Joey

[Ramsay]

Good Things :
1) im a good laugh
2) i have a fantastic taste in music
3) i always clean up after a wank cos i know how horrible it'd be going to type on the keyboard and suddenly im feeling someone else jizz

Bad things:
1) lazy as ****
2) a bit too open..like..id be sitting around people and mid coversation i'd be like..awwww i had such a good ****/piss/wank/ earlier today...
3) a bit of a music snob
4) and i get awkward really easy

[Redway]

Best:

1. Intelligent
2. Swagger's off the radar
3. Sociable

Worst:

1. Rebellious
2. Get stressed out way too easily
3. A bit of a chav

By the way, I'm not a scally or anything, just a bit chavvy.

[Angus]

Good
1. Loyal no matter what
2. Honest and trustworthy, I know how to keep a confidence
3. Caring and compassionate, I'll do anything for those I love

Bad
1. Opinionated - I have a view on everything!
2. A dreadful worrier, especially about those I love
3. Perfectionist but only towards myself - I set my goals too high at times

[Tom4784]

Good Points

Forgiving - I can't hold a grudge against anyone and can forgive most people. I'm too empathic and understanding to stay mad at someone for long.

Easy Going

Quick Thinker

Spoiler:

Whenever something good happens this song plays in my head.

Youtube video

If that's not a good point I don't know what is. Yes this is a 4th point, **** the police.

Bad Points

Wrathful - It takes a lot to make me truly angry but when I reach that point I become incredibly vengeful, spiteful and vicious. I can be a nasty piece of work if pushed that far.

Jekyll and Hyde syndrome - I feel like I'm two different people a lot of the time. Normally I'd consider myself to be quite a good, kind and gentle person but then somedays I'm just cold and apathetic for no reason and I'm not sure why.

Distant - I'm a bit of a closed book in real life, I think it's quite difficult for me to get to know someone.

[Ninastar]

Best
Very Empathetic
Friendly
Funny (that sounds vain but I make myself laugh)

Worst
Shallow at times
Judgemental
I sometimes get really nasty at people. I've noticed it's when I like them /sobs I just have to make people feel sad sometimes. I don't know why I do it, it's getting worse aswell

[Ninastar]

wow i killed this thread

[GypsyGoth]

[Ammi]

I don't think I can say really..it's subjective. I could be thoughtful in one situation and thoughtless in another...friendly to someone I warm to or distant to someone I don't. That's a good thing to have that balance though..if I thought of myself as a 'kind' person, I think I would be susceptible to feeling 'put upon' by others and therefore think it was a negative thing and something I would see as a weakness...at times it can be good to be selfish, it's important to think of yourself sometimes..so long as it is balanced and not all the time.
..I think I may be overthinking this...I do that often..but sometimes I don't think enough and make a flippant remark that may upset someone...subjective.
It's not up to me to say what I am...I'm different things to different people

[Suze]

Originally Posted by Ninastar

wow i killed this thread

That's usually my job.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Suze

That's usually my job.

..we can take turns

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by Ammi

I don't think I can say really..it's subjective. I could be thoughtful in one situation and thoughtless in another...friendly to someone I warm to or distant to someone I don't. That's a good thing to have that balance though..if I thought of myself as a 'kind' person, I think I would be susceptible to feeling 'put upon' by others and therefore think it was a negative thing and something I would see as a weakness...at times it can be good to be selfish, it's important to think of yourself sometimes..so long as it is balanced and not all the time.
..I think I may be overthinking this...I do that often..but sometimes I don't think enough and make a flippant remark that may upset someone...subjective.
It's not up to me to say what I am...I'm different things to different people

Incredible post Ammi, very thought provoking, almost poetic too.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by joeysteele

Incredible post Ammi, very thought provoking, almost poetic too.

Ha thanks Joey ...I overthought it a bit

[LemonJam]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

Good Points

Forgiving - I can't hold a grudge against anyone and can forgive most people. I'm too empathic and understanding to stay mad at someone for long.

Alliance.

Spoiler:

Whenever something good happens this song plays in my head.

Youtube video

If that's not a good point I don't know what is. Yes this is a 4th point, **** the police.