[Kate!]

Originally Posted by Novo

I find people that predicts someone else beats up women without any proof or real evidence ignorant.. but there we go

Dear God
Novo.... Where exactly have I said that Conor or Arron best up women. I haven't.

I just asked for you to have a little think and not make a massive joke and mockery of the situation which reminds someone like myself of issues and is a sensitive topic. Plus I asked you politely and you came back with a silly comment about how much you admire them and they should be role models.

It's clear you know nothing about DV. Domestic violence doesn't have to be physical.

It starts out very minor, controlling behaviour, putdowns, slowly robbing you of your confidence. The aim is for them to get you completely dependent on them. Once they get you to that stage, it escalates. I will be happy to discuss the subject with you as you and I gave never got on and I can befriend anyone normally, so I don't think its me.