[bbfan1991]

A man has been given a year's probation for bigamy after his first wife found out about his second marriage on Facebook.

Alan O'Neill's first wife saw a photograph of him on the 'People You May Know' section of the social networking site in which he was dressed smartly and standing with another woman next to a wedding cake, reports Washington's News Tribune.

Pierce County Superior Court judge Beverly Grant handed down a suspended sentence for the gross misdemeanor offence.

O'Neill's attorney Philip Thornton said that his client was "extremely embarrassed and remorseful" and had never intended to commit bigamy.

Explaining that O'Neill had left the divorce from his first wife in the hands of a neighbour who never filed the paperwork, Thornton added that the 42-year-old has annulled his second marriage, and still plans to divorce his first wife.

O'Neill is currently on unpaid leave from his job as a corrections officer, and a sheriff's spokesman said that the results of an internal investigation will be evaluated before a decision is made on whether he can go back to work.

His first wife wrote a letter to the court in which she said she felt her husband "just made a bad decision that hurt a few people's feelings and [brought] embarrassment to himself", and expressed her opinion that coverage of the case had been embarrassing enough for him

[fruit_cake]

How could you not know that your husband has another family somewhere else? the mind boggles it really does.

[Locke.]

What a bitch the first wife is

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by fruit_cake

How could you not know that your husband has another family somewhere else? the mind boggles it really does.

people are very often willfully ignorant. It's like asking how can you throw away your leftovers when there are so many starving people in the world.

Or look at the Sandusky scandal...

most people are too involved with themselves to see whats really going on around them.

[fruit_cake]

Originally Posted by lostalex

people are very often willfully ignorant. It's like asking how can you throw away your leftovers when there are so many starving people in the world.

Or look at the Sandusky scandal...

most people are too involved with themselves to see whats really going on around them.

yes you make a very good point there, or perhaps they just are happy in denial. What the eye doesn't see the heart doesn't grieve over