[calyman]

Originally Posted by alex_front2

I am sorry but for me I can often tell. Even gay guys who are not screamers. Knew nothing about Gareth Thomas and thought he was gay, bingo he was (and he hasn't stopped droning on about being gay since).

Dan says no one could tell he was gay when he joined the Force. Eh? Dan is camp, granted he's not Alan Carr levels of camp but the fact that he managed to dupe women into sleeping with him beggers believe. These women must have been really sheltered or in denial

The women who insisted that Clay Aitkin or whatever his name is just seemed really silly. Oh c'mon. How did people ever think George Michael was straight? Are folks blind. Women who marry gay men with out realising, seriously?? seriously? Have these women met their husbands There's a gay guy I used to work with who is gay, everyone knows it despite the fact he pretends he's straight. None of us out him or tell him as loads of gays like to think they can fool straights with their straight acting and take pride in the 'no one can tell I am gay' bless. It seems cruel to tell them We know, we know. No biggie.

I don't get why so many gay men get annoyed that women can increasingly tell when men are gay. It's 2013. Seriously doubt a Liberace would be able to fool women and sue a paper for claiming he was gay...and win. I spotted Frank Ocean as gay long long before he came out, even though everyone said there's no way pseudo-homophobe and Frank's group collaborator Tyler the Creator would work with a gay bloke in Future

I'm pleased that you are so good at perceiving effeminate acting men and classing them as Gay.

Have you ever been mistaken in your categorising and classed someone as Gay who you later found out was actually straight?

Have you never been surprised to learn that someone you could have sworn was straight was actually Gay?

Have you ever thought how those women who later found their husbands were Gay, felt when they learned the truth?

Have you ever thought how hurtful and nasty it may be for someone to know they are the sniggering topic of other's speculation as to their true sexuality?

Have you ever thought that Gay men you know are not trying to "act straight", but in fact are acting like an adult male should, regardless of their sexuality?