[Gerbil901]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..I kind of agree with you that I went off Marlon last night as well..I thought how his disrespectful comments about Kimberley may have just been a bit of 'lad' talk and he seemed to understand that they were wrong afterwards so I still thought he was quite cool and maybe a possible winner for me..?..and last night I did wonder at the start why he had been called into the diary room until I saw him in the diary room and saw why, he did need time to calm imo and he seems to have no respect whatsoever for females...I know how annoying Toya is and must be to those around her in the house but his reaction toward her was equally wrong and two wrongs don't make a right or make him right etc...

I disagree. Just because a man gets into an argument with a woman doesn't mean that he doesn't respect women in general. He didn't make any comments about Kimberly again and he's never gotten into huge arguments with any of the other women in the house or called them out of their names. Most men are not disrespectful of women. Unfortunately there are women out there who get their kicks off of pushing a man to the brink and he ends up retaliating. He was tired of taking her crap and hearing her mouth and he let her have it. Women like Toya expect to talk to men like we are nothing more than gum on the bottom of their shoe but then get angry that a man has the "Audacity" to dish it back out to her.

I do think that they were both wrong regardless though. I wish that they would apologize to each other and learn to just get on for the sake of peace in the house because I hate to see stuff like that. It's not making either of them look good in my opinion.