[puzzled]

A lot of people are responsible for the divide, starting with Pauline. Then there are those, like Steven, who latched on to, and hid behind Helen. Judi should not have dumped it all on Helen. Has Helen been vile and lashed out unnecessarily? Yes. Still, I do feel sorry for her. I've never known anyone who was so nasty who wasn't covering up a world of hurt inside. I really hope that she will finally see what others do, and will go and get counselling. I hope those tears signal a tiny bit of self-awareness in her. Probably, not, but one can hope. Pav's "help" is all wrong--Helen needs someone to hold up a mirror of her behaviour to her.