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Originally Posted by Ninastar

Then select to sync your contacts on the Summary tab of your iTunes sync settings and sync. When you sync you should get a merge or replace prompt for contacts. If you want to merge the contacts on your phone with those on your Mac, choose Merge.

wat?

wheres the 'summary tab'??

With the iPhone connected to iTunes, select the iPhone under Devices in the iTunes source list to make the various selections or tabs for your iPhone sync preferences with iTunes available in the main iTunes window.

Across the top in the main iTunes window, the selections are; Summary, Info, Apps, Tones, Music, Movies, TV Shows, Podcasts, Books, Photos.