[jaxie]

Originally Posted by daniel-lewis-1985

So basically you're saying women should assume all men are going to sexually assault them so its their own fault if they choose to be alone with them? lol

I cannot believe some of the comments on tonight episode I thought we were a much better forum than that.

No I'm saying its a little silly to put yourself in close proximity to someone who has had a lot to drink, particularly in a state of undress. That doesn't mean he should touch but really it was dumb and not too far fetched that someone who isn't thinking straight might get the wrong idea. And don't put words into my mouth.Thanks!

I think it was a stupid situation but the guy doesn't deserve the major overaction he is getting. How have we gone from touching her robe to sexual assault?

[daniel-lewis-1985]

Originally Posted by jaxie

No I'm saying its a little silly to put yourself in close proximity to someone who has had a lot to drink, particularly in a state of undress. That doesn't mean he should touch but really it was dumb and not too far fetched that someone who isn't thinking straight might get the wrong idea. And don't put words into my mouth.Thanks!

I think it was a stupid situation but the guy doesn't deserve the major overaction he is getting.

Its not as if she stripped off and got into the hot tub with him lol.

He was being sick crouched over a toilet (hardly the most erotic or boner enducing place) and she was in a frumpy dressing gown helping him.

duh.

[jaxie]

Originally Posted by daniel-lewis-1985

Its not as if she stripped off and got into the hot tub with him lol.

He was being sick crouched over a toilet (hardly the most erotic or boner enducing place) and she was in a frumpy dressing gown helping him.

duh.

Exactly he was drunk and sick, so how bad could it have been? It was obviously a drunk making a pass. Duh. Why does everyone need to act like it was a major sexual assault?

[Macie Lightfoot]

Originally Posted by jaxie

No I'm saying its a little silly to put yourself in close proximity to someone who has had a lot to drink, particularly in a state of undress. That doesn't mean he should touch but really it was dumb and not too far fetched that someone who isn't thinking straight might get the wrong idea. And don't put words into my mouth.Thanks!

I think it was a stupid situation but the guy doesn't deserve the major overaction he is getting. How have we gone from touching her robe to sexual assault?

Why was it a little silly to be a good housemate and friend and check up on someone who's clearly had too much to drink and is sick? Being in a robe is hardly a state of undress and there's nothing dumb about it. It's gone from grabbing at her robe to sexual assault because posts and ideas like this perpetuate slut-shaming, victim-blaming rape culture at its finest.

Originally Posted by jaxie

Exactly he was drunk and sick, so how bad could it have been? It was obviously a drunk making a pass. Duh. Why does everyone need to act like it was a major sexual assault?

Bad enough for her to feel embarrassed and vulnerable and unsafe when she shouldn't need to feel that way for doing the right thing and checking on a friend. A fake house in a TV studio where everything is filmed is supposed to be a safe place.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by jaxie

No I'm saying its a little silly to put yourself in close proximity to someone who has had a lot to drink, particularly in a state of undress. That doesn't mean he should touch but really it was dumb and not too far fetched that someone who isn't thinking straight might get the wrong idea. And don't put words into my mouth.Thanks!

I think it was a stupid situation but the guy doesn't deserve the major overaction he is getting. How have we gone from touching her robe to sexual assault?

...to help someone when they were drunk to the point of being ill is not a time when you would naturally feel vulnerable though and she was very much dressed in a robe because the robe covered her body and her body was meant to stay covered unless she decided otherwise...if he can misread situations to such an extent that he did because of alcohol and for sure more alcohol will be available in the house ..then it's right that he should be removed from the house...