[arista]

Originally Posted by Smithy

Tbh I think if you make a thread asking for a banned member to come back you should be banned, even when the thread is closed the drama just rolls into the next thread and that's exactly what happened last night

Bloody Typical

[arista]

[Locke.]

I don't know what has happended

[Suze]

Things always heat up especially around the time when shows like BB and IAC are on, things soon simmer down though nearing the end of such a series. I think the best way to defuse something that is getting too heated is just to make light in post replies and not to take such shows on the reality forums too seriously or things can spill over into other forums sometimes.

[Pete.]

People are in denial that there will be an all-female top 3

[Denver]

Originally Posted by Petemitch

People are in denial that there will be an all-female top 3

Its not denial its the truth

[Pete.]

Originally Posted by adamski94

Its not denial its the truth

Yaas

[Daniel-X]

Originally Posted by LukeB

What has happended to this site it use to be okay but there is like arguments in most threads these days and it's really off putting. makes me sad tbh arguments are uncomfortable to watch. Espicially today which makes me want to go on my hiatus a week early.

It seems really intense I prefer off season tbh it's much more calm and more friendships seem to form.

I'm sure it will be back to normal after this week

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock

I was coping with the Forum in this series until we hit about day 18 and every joke was getting taken literally, people reporting each other, people starting to harass one another, and members putting each other on ignore because they disagree out of who's right out of Perez and Hopkins.

It's trying to match BB15's intensity and we're only on day 25, I dread to think how intense it's going to be when BB16 gets to it's final week, or worse when we get to CBB16.

I've been reported a couple of times for what I thought was a joking post,but I guess we have to realise we all see things differently as someone said it is what it is,I just carry on,enjoy the show it will be over soon,whoever wins will not impact on my life and ready for the next round,I think it has been worse than this tbh.

[Calderyon]

OT: Visage is not going to be in the final 3 and Cami is going to be evicted just before final with Kavana.

How it will go:

One of the Katie´s is going to win, one of them will finish third and Cheggers will be between them.

Visage and Perez will battle for fourth and fifth place max. If there is a sixth finalist, that´s going to be Calum´s place to take.

[Jarrod]

I notice this too and it's not really over the Big Brother debates. I love seeing the Big Brother debates between older and newer fans it's interesting.

I'm frustrated over the petty stupid arguments between the same group of members over banned members, small stupid events which result in stupid "sassy" gifs being posted everywhere and the being used over and over. It's boring and pathetic.

[smudgie]

I suppose as the weeks go on, fans get more involved and quite passionate about who they love and hate.

I prefer to just see it for what it is..a gameshow.
The thought of baiting or upsetting anyone in here for the sake of mouthing off about someone you will never meet astounds me.

[AnnieK]

Originally Posted by smudgie

I suppose as the weeks go on, fans get more involved and quite passionate about who they love and hate.

I prefer to just see it for what it is..a gameshow.
The thought of baiting or upsetting anyone in here for the sake of mouthing off about someone you will never meet astounds me.

I agree smudgie....I got drawn into it a bit in the last few days and it has seriously pissed me off. I have been called sick by people who know nothing of me, my life or experiences and although I didn't retaliate with personal comments, I found myself stewing over it. My very recent shock bereavement has taught me life is too short to dwell on things though but I would never dream of calling strangers names....it's childish and petty.

[GypsyGoth]

I've skipped CBB this year so haven't noticed what's been going on in that section

As for the rest of tibb, it's always ranged from being a lively fun place, to feeling like you're in the middle of a family feud where grudges go on without closure, oh and there are the times when it's quiet and chilled.

[T*]

I didnt think it was possible for C&G to start sucking the life out of me, but it currently is. I feel like taking a break; All this drama is ****ing stupid.

[T*]

Originally Posted by Smithy

Tbh I think if you make a thread asking for a banned member to come back you should be banned, even when the thread is closed the drama just rolls into the next thread and that's exactly what happened last night

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by LukeB

What has happended to this site it use to be okay but there is like arguments in most threads these days and it's really off putting. makes me sad tbh arguments are uncomfortable to watch. Espicially today which makes me want to go on my hiatus a week early.

Hi luke B,
When I first joined in 2010 Luke B. it was near always like this ,on across the board topics too,not just BB,although BB had so many members with differing views on the threads and things got very heated.

I don't mind debate and very often have changed my view due to what others have said on here on issues.

I agree,it is sad when the arguments become personal insults to other members or even unfounded accusations as to what they have said or mean.

Not in any way crawling here, I do however feel tibb has a really good 'mod' team in place now that does take the action needed when required.I also think just about all of them are very approachable too if any member felt they needed assistance at times.

It has taken me a long time this last near 5 years on here to acquire the acceptable and best way to deal with too bad arguments that may occur on any thread I am taking part in,even moreso as to the unwarranted personal attacks I had in the past for the position I take on some things.

Now I quite enjoy it,sometimes, once it now gets to the point where I have made my point and am getting nowhere,I try to bring it to an end by not responding to the person or leaving the thread for a time.
7 out of 10 times that happens,when I do go back the thread has been closed anyway

I hope you get to the position I now use,you are a great member with good posts and really good views, I don't always agree with you myself, as you don't me too but I hope nothing happens to make you think of not persevering.

Keep going please and when I think about it, you know I can be around my family with maybe 9 or 10 of them there, and we can get into some really heated debates. at times just like on here.
I now sort of see this as the 'tibb family' as to myself and in the main love every minute I become part of tibb for the time I am online.
I have found some great people on here, really great people too,and in the main 'just about 'everyone means well to others on here too, despite sometimes strong disagreements at times.

[LemonJam]

Just ignore it and do your thing.

[Crimson Dynamo]

lets just ban all the tibb teenagers

and at the same time steal their pocket money and spend it on booze

that would fix Tibb

[Fetch The Bolt Cutters]

[Crimson Dynamo]

When faced with a dilemma like this I always ask myself

"what would post face surgery Kellie Maloney do?"

I find that you can meet most of the hardships that life throws at you by doing that



Kellie, relaxing

[Fetch The Bolt Cutters]

[T*]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

lets just ban all the tibb teenagers

and at the same time steal their pocket money and spend it on booze

that would fix Tibb

or kill it, as about 80% of the members would be banned and it'd be a ghost town.

[Ninastar]

When people blindly follow other people and judge others before getting to actually know them, then of course there's going to be drama. Sticking up for vile, ****stiring people isn't helping anyone. They are banned for a reason.

At least all this drama is making people remember how disgusting they are. Silver lining or whatever

[Fetch The Bolt Cutters]

but i'll still be here

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