[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Daniel-X

I'm so furious and my night has been ruined tbh. I asked my two 'best friends' (I'm probably closer to these girls two than most other people) what they were doing tonight and they lied to my face and said 'nothing, we're just staying in.' so I just believed them and never really questioned what was happening. I've just been on my snapchat and checked stories and I saw them putting 'girls night in' and I thought it was rather sly that they hadn't told me because I always invite both of them but wasn't really bothered. The thing what's really upset me is that another friend of theirs who is fairly close to them but not that close to them as I am, has gone go this 'girls night' baring in mind they always tell me they feel closer to me. The thing is that they lied to my face and basically made me second best. They didn't tell me about this night in and I wouldn't have minded if they did. I'm usually forgiving but I'm so annoyed I'm not going to forgive them easily this time. Am I being OTT or should I be this annoyed?

...I'm not sure about 'sly' Daniel, only because they did put it on snapchat, which is somewhere, where you would see it so in a way, they were quite open about it..?..but just didn't really explain it to you properly, so I can see why it would upset you...plus if you've always been a part of the 'girl's night in', other times and always invited them..then, that would hurt...sadly, people don't always think..'how would I feel'..and I'm sure that hurt wasn't intended, so talk to them about it today...see what they say and explain how it made you feel, because quite often we can misunderstand stuff that really doesn't need to be misunderstood but that can cause bad feelings...