[LukeB]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Nah I just can't agree with that. Hes not exactly the pillar of morality or anything but to make out they are both as bad as each other, while she is the one in an actual relationship, is wrong.

relationship yes but he's hardly respecting her boyfriend is he?

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by LukeB

If she was saying want a hug/or whatever they are doing and he says no then fair enough it will be all on her but he's not saying no.. both are letting this happen so they both are equal

I don't understand this, I actually don't

She is in a relationship, he is not. I do not get how her cheating is his fault. Yes, hes going along with it, so? He is not in a relationship :S

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by LukeB

relationship yes but he's hardly respecting her boyfriend is he?

Nope, but hes not the one who is so 'in love' with the boyfriend

[Josy]

He isn't already with someone though, she is

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by EspeonBB

I agree she should get blame for the reasons you said but Jeremy knows she in a relationship and isn't doing anything to stop what's happening, which makes him at least kind of responsible and he definitely should get some of the blame.

He's being a bit of a selfish dick

But shes the one cheating

I think its fair to say shes worse in this tbh. I do not understand how some think its equal.

[lewis111]

Jeremy seems proud of himself kinda that he manages to take someone else's girlfrend which I find annoying. She deserves a worst reaction but not to the extent to which it will probably be

[susie q]

Originally Posted by LukeB

But don't you think he should back away from her? it does take two, rather than blaming one person

yes if he genuinely liked her he would back off. Hope he gets booed too.

[LukeB]

Just because you're not in the relationship doesn't mean it's alright to go for people in relationships, they have to respect that and the person who is in the relationship has to think no I have a boyfriend i need to respect him, Cheating/whatever it is, isn't a one person doing.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by LukeB

Just because you're not in the relationship doesn't mean it's alright to go for people in relationships, they have to respect that and the person who is in the relationship has to think no I have a boyfriend i need to respect him, Cheating/whatever it is, isn't a one person doing.

If I saw it like this, I would seriously hate Kristina, who has gone through 3 MARRIED men in a row

Nah, the one in the relationship is the one in the wrong to me. I honestly don't see how equal blame should be dished out at all

Anyway, we are clearly not going to agree on this so leaving

[Josy]

Originally Posted by LukeB

Just because you're not in the relationship doesn't mean it's alright to go for people in relationships, they have to respect that and the person who is in the relationship has to think no I have a boyfriend i need to respect him, Cheating/whatever it is, isn't a one person doing.

Stephanie is in a relationship and should have had enough respect for her boyfriend to not get involved with Jeremey at all.

Not really sure how anyone can attempt to deny that.

[Jamie89]

Originally Posted by LukeB

If she was saying want a hug/or whatever they are doing and he says no then fair enough it will be all on her but he's not saying no.. both are letting this happen so they both are equal

They're both equally involved in whatever it is they're doing, but he doesn't have a responsibility to, or any prior relationship with, her boyfriend. What he's doing makes him a dick, sure, but in this scenario I think she is definitely worse than him. Basically they're both dicks for getting together when somebody in the outside world is going to get hurt, but she's more of a dick because she's the one who is committed to that person. It's not a male/female thing either for me, I'd feel the same if it was the other way around.

[Jack_]

The person who cheats in a relationship is the one who has to take all of the blame, or else you get into ridiculous situations (which often occur, especially among women) where the cheater is taken back and the person who got involved is labelled a 'slag', 'slut' etc and gets all of the criticism - and it's pathetic.

If you're single you're free to do as you wish. Yes, getting involved with someone's who's in a relationship makes you a bit of a ****...but it's not your problem. If you're willing to cheat, that's your issue and your issue alone, and it is you and nobody else that should have to deal with the repercussions should it get found out.

[EspeonBB]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

He's being a bit of a selfish dick

But shes the one cheating

I think its fair to say shes worse in this tbh. I do not understand how some think its equal.

Oh I definitely think she should get the majority of the blame, she is the one in a relationship and she has a commitment to stay loyal to her boyfriend.

But I think Jeremy had a part to play in the situation too and isn't blameless. I thought the same thing about the Daley/Hazel situation too (which made it even worse when Hazel got the most hate)

[tr1cky]

Vile couple, they deserve each other.

[rionablue]

The way I see it is that Stephanie said on the first or second night she had a boyfriend and they were looking around to see if there were any single girls. She was drawn to Jeremy and he to her and ok they had the banter and messed around a bit. She crossed the line the minute she crawled into his bed whether it be for cuddles hugs or as she said it having a laugh.

She started out on the road to regret a few nights ago and has now turned into a rather unlikeable ( and I really liked her) snivelling mess. Jeremy is cocky and full of himself and he is delighted she wants to be in bed with him and of course there is the added bonus that he is shacking up with a woman who has a relationship. He is NOT going to throw her out of the bed. Megan gave her a perfectly good solution tonight in telling her she should switch beds and she could share with her if she wanted to.

If I were Stephanies boyfriend I would be gutted to see this going on and would dump her without a shadow of a doubt. Steph says she loves him and wants him. WELL **** OFF BACK TO YOUR OWN BED MY LOVE

[Jack.]

Can't stand Jeremy tbh and i'm not really that keen on Steph either

[Northern Monkey]

Originally Posted by _LucasMichael_

Well she is the one who is supposed to be in a relationship.

Eeexactly

[Crimson Dynamo]

Women are seen as home makers and mother subconsciously - men are seen as hunter gatherers

thus a woman's deceit is viewed as worse

its hardwired into us over thousands of years

[Amy Jade]

I actually blame them both, but I think the majority of blame falling to Steph is fair.

She is the one in a relationship and therefore she is the one with commitments

[bots]

whatever the crowd reaction, it will be faultless based on their previous roasting of Winston, clearly.