[Josy]

Originally Posted by sungrass

Well on Towie - a good five years back she was much more sweet and very vulnerable - she really tried hard to find love - and was rejected and humiliated over and over again for ratings.

This is what annoys me - is that people do not have memories.

The result of this treatment was her putting on this "front" and thats the side of her that people hate.

On Towie for years she has said she dreams of having twin girls. Shes loosing faith and hope now - she hasnt had the best guidance from her parents/management - she is not intelligent - when her PR people tell her how to act she probably does it.

She has worked hard all her life and doesnt want to sponge off a man - but I think she has NEVER experienced what all her essex chums have experienced in their life style - just being wined and dined and truly cared for by someone who loves you. She has just been rejected and rejected and now its turned her into this.

She needs some good friends in her life. I can see straight through the front and Im not angry with her for having one - she gets a lot of stick - jokes about her weight etc shes been big ever since she was a child, she needs some serious help with her weight issues but society instead decides to be cruel about it...

honestly I despair at humanity sometimes.

I've never see Towie so why would I have memories of it?

And Gemma said herself she wants someone with money so she doesn't have to work....

[sungrass]

Originally Posted by Visage

Fair point, I see where you're coming from and I can understand your frustration when you're reading some of the comments on here.



I agree, much better lifestyle to have and no feeling crappy the next day too.





I don't hate her, I don't like who she is or how she comes across in the house.

If she's had a very tough life then I can see (from your comments) how it can lead to where she is now.

The thing with this show is this, I've seen many celebrities go in and comment on why they are doing the show

"I want the public to see the real me and not pay attention to the tabloids"

"I'm hoping to change the perception people have of me"



I'm always disappointed that some people feel the need to tarnish a person based on their appearance. In whatever form it comes out, it's always ugly and disappointing to read.


I can chat/debate about any housemates behaviour, but struggle when people resort to personal insults as a way of bashing a housemate.

I feel the same - I think the personal insults really let everyone on here down. Its as nasty behaviour as they behaviour they preport to dislike in housemates!

[Beso]

Leave her alone, all she has to do is make enough money for some young, fit, desperate for money local geezer to pump her till the day she dies.