[Ammi]

Originally Posted by AProducer'sWetDream

Thankyou for responding... you always talk a lot of sense. I guess that's my choice: for me I think this is the right time, but this has just complicated things a bit and I'm not sure whether the reaction will be different it's been a bit of a shock for everyone and has caused a stir with some of the older members of my family.

Should I put myself first or consider everyone else's feelings?

...don't let it complicate it for you because when your cousin decided to come out..(which just happened to coincide with when you want to..)...it was totally his choice and that's what it should always be..this is not putting yourself first at all..there is no 'right time' other than the time that you feel right about it and you seem to really want it to be now...you're the only one to consider in this and in a way, you could think about it as now knowing a bit of what to expect yourself from those less supportive in the family, you've had that insight, type thing and that could help you in how you're going to do it..?...