[Beso]

Originally Posted by Ammi

...but yes, them's the rules Parmy baby...if we like someone, they get the understandings and the thought but if we're not so keen then them is just THICK AS....

oh I know, it's silly, at least accept the bad points with the good like I do.

[RavenleFey]

Actually, the more I think about it I really do see so many similarities. I was always used to being on my own and didn't mix very much with peers. It was a very adult environment. I learnt to be self reliant and closed because I didn't really have anyone to share thoughts or emotions with, everything became internal.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by parmnion

oh I know, it's silly, at least accept the bad points with the good like I do.

But you don't , you rant and call people if they say anything bad about Hughie,then you go on to call the housemates you don't like names and get personal with the fans that like them,in my book that is no way to debate any housemate.i find you usually get back what you throw .

[Beso]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

But you don't , you rant and call people if they say anything bad about Hughie,then you go on to call the housemates you don't like names and get personal with the fans that like them,in my book that is no way to debate any housemate.i find you usually get back what you throw .

I can't recall calling anyone on here this year for not liking hughie. In fact Ive hardly posted this year to avoid it. Nor have I insulted any fans of jason or anyone else.

In fact, what I have done is sat back and allowed hughies fans be ridiculed for being as thick as him for liking him.

but if you can trawl my posts you may find a cheeky one.

[alex_front2]

He's making sure his army of female fans eg housewives fall for the sob story. The thing with Jason because he's a big guy it's easy to forget he has feelings too and could be sensitive. So he's making sure people realise he's not all brute and brawn but is a gentle soul. Nice work Jason, women would be creaming their panties wanting to comfort him

[hot2go]

Originally Posted by kirklancaster

One of my closest friends from the late 60's was a really strikingly handsome guy - 6 feet tall, athletically built, very very handsome, and always well dressed. He looked like he should have had the world at his feet, but he was so painfully shy, introverted and socially 'akward' that it was painful to see him 'struggle' in company.

I was - and still am - the polar opposite, extroverted and at ease in any situation, and I 'carried' him in a way, because INSIDE that shy akward, stumbling exterior, was one of the nicest guys anyone could hope to meet.

He did DID talk freely with me and a few others who were in OUR goup, if you like, and we KNEW the real him, but if we were out and even one stranger was in sight, he just stood there looking out of place and flushed up if the stranger spoke to him.

He passed away a few years ago now bless him. RIP.

I recognise Jason because of my own experience, and I don't think he is 'playing for sympathy' either - people like my friend and Jason DON'T need 'sympathy' just UNDERSTANDING.

I find people who are introspective far more interesting and intriguing than loud over the too characters....obv somewhere in the middle is the best way to get thru this sod of a life but in my experience the loudest one in the room is usually the most superficial and the most insecure

Examples...Charlie, Ryan, Lateysha, Kerry Katona

Some I are borderline sociopathic like Stephanie Davis from CBB.

I find their madness far more unnerving than the calmness of people like Jason or Alex.

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by RavenleFey

I'm an only child. I understood it as him trying to explain that's why he withdraws a bit and isn't very open. I'm certainly like that and always have been, if I have a problem I never go to anyone for help, I bottle it up and try to work things out myself. I think it does explain a lot of his behaviour.

Great to have another perspective from someone speaking with the genuine authority which comes from personal experience, Raven.

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by hot2go

I find people who are introspective far more interesting and intriguing than loud over the too characters....obv somewhere in the middle is the best way to get thru this sod of a life but in my experience the loudest one in the room is usually the most superficial and the most insecure

Examples...Charlie, Ryan, Lateysha, Kerry Katona

Some I are borderline sociopathic like Stephanie Davis from CBB.

I find their madness far more unnerving than the calmness of people like Jason or Alex.

Great post H2G.

[getjasonout]

Originally Posted by hot2go

It was the grown ups talking....maybe best to go back to throwing Mayonaise around the garden eh

Is that your idea of good television?

Boring characters sat talking about nothing interesting?

rather see a good mayo fight any day