[power2thepeople]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

He may have done wrong, but he isn't the only one to ever make a mistake. The others are hardly saints.

He DID do something wrong and regardless of the theories regarding Lillie's future deals to be made over this, it was his complete lack of any responsibility. He's very fond of shouting the words 'own it' to others. Yet he's incapable of owning it himself. I look at a boy like Bear (because I don't recognise any qualities to call him a man) and I ask myself: Would I want my own daughter involved with him? I'd be distraught. Would I be proud of him if he was my son? I'd personally be ashamed. Would I lash out at others to find any relatively comparable flaws? No, I would concentrate on trying to make him a better man himself. I simply fail to see any redeeming qualities in him as a person if you detach the 'entertainment' argument.