[mr rochester]

I think the OP is making a very valid point indeed. She has had a difficult life with her step father who was a serious player. I would hope that she does not embroil herself with a mediocre copy of her dad. She can do much better and Jamie is clearly a troubled and problematic man. I am not sure where he is going now. However, I do see quite a glittering future for her because she is such a nice girl. She is sweet and lovely. He is difficult and he will dim her light. She is going places but maybe he's been to all the places he can go effectively. Sorry if this sounds harsh but I believe it's true. Don't go there Bianca...