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12-05-2017, 08:58 AM | #51 | |||
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This really, I cant see this being an issue for anyone other than celebs or multi millionaires anyway
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12-05-2017, 09:00 AM | #52 | ||
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12-05-2017, 09:04 AM | #53 | ||
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Oh are we still actually playing along with this fiction?
She s demanding half of everything before they've even got married. Ok. |
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12-05-2017, 09:04 AM | #54 | ||
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What next? His fiance just happens to be Germaine Greer?
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12-05-2017, 09:07 AM | #55 | ||
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Shhhhhhh it's harmless fun. Unless there actually is a literal woman. In which case it's probably a case of psychological abuse. But... shh anyway.
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12-05-2017, 09:15 AM | #56 | |||
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If you have to go and see solicitors behind her back and stuff you shouldn't be with her!
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12-05-2017, 10:36 AM | #57 | ||
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cheers for the mockery she wants to go 50 /50 on the deeds of the house we're buying, I dont. I rather buy it alone but she wants security as shes moving down from england and leaving her job etc
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12-05-2017, 10:39 AM | #58 | ||
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That's the answer you keep getting when you ask this question on here... from everyone. It's not going to change no matter how many times you ask... |
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12-05-2017, 10:54 AM | #59 | |||
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If you aren't married then I'd advise you to get something called a pre-purchase agreement. If the deposit is being paid by your parents or her parents its going to get halved down the middle if you don't have a ppa. Remember though, your lender will have to agree to this or you could end up in deep water when/if it all goes pete-tongue.
This is an appropriate site to have a look at https://andersonstrathern.co.uk/news...ase-agreement/
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12-05-2017, 11:03 AM | #60 | ||
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12-05-2017, 11:05 AM | #61 | ||
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12-05-2017, 11:12 AM | #62 | ||
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The thing is, the fact that you have to ask is what makes it a bad idea to go into shared ownership of a property together in the first place. If both of you are so intent on having legal protections over owning it 50/50 then you're not really at the point in your relationship, I would say, where you are even ready to live together full term let alone share ownership. Have you been in a long term / committed relationship before? I don't know what to tell you other than that having to take out legal documents in order to trust each other is simply not normal, at all.
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12-05-2017, 11:28 AM | #63 | |||
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I'm married but we have still protected ourselves as individuals because sometimes, unexpected **** happens.
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If I was her, I'd be very suspicious of his motives. Regardless of paying part of the mortgage and bills, if there's no agreement, she's screwed if he decides to end the relationship and she gets nothing for her investment. She's the one making the biggest compromise because she's moving some distance, which means she needs new employment. Why would she do that when the stakes for losing everything are so high? Unmarried people split all the time, regardless of them sharing a mortgage. Truth is already in a good place because he clearly has the money to buy her out if need be.
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12-05-2017, 12:24 PM | #67 | ||
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12-05-2017, 12:35 PM | #68 | |||
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You want an agreement so she doesnt get anything of yours not to protect her though, thats the opposite of what DR said
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12-05-2017, 12:47 PM | #69 | |||
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So you don't want her in on the mortgage and you want an agreement?
She wants to pay half the mortgage but doesn't want an agreement? She's accepted that you won't let her pay her half of the mortgage but she doesn't want an agreement?
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12-05-2017, 12:56 PM | #70 | |||
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If the two of you are buying it outright, then I see no problem having an ownership agreement drawn up to say what percentage you both own.
If there was still to be some mortgage, it could get a bit messy. |
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12-05-2017, 12:59 PM | #71 | ||
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I mean... we know nothing about her really to say whether or not this is a realistic fear, but my take on it is, the fact that it's a fear at all suggests VERY strongly that Mr Truth is not ready for this step . Truth if it's that much of an issue just buy it 100% yourself and be the sole owner, but with her living with you (if you must...). She pays nothing up front, and nothing towards it afterwards; it's your house. It shouldn't really be a risk for her... if she has the cash to put towards a house now then she can put that money away safely, and even add to it on a monthly basis since she'll be paying no mortgage, and if (when??? as you seem to be sure it'll happen!) you do break up she won't be left in a bad position because she'll still have that money . She would actually be putting herself in the WORST POSSIBLE position if she does things the way you want to; her putting up the money she has to be a less than 50% owner. In that case, when you break up, she has NO money to set herself up and you have a stronger claim on the property than she does, leaving her pretty much screwed, other than requesting that the property be sold and the money split again, but selling a house can take months if not years. She would have to be insane to sign the agreement you're seeking. And if you really want her to... I can't understand how you can even claim to like this person, let alone love her? Last edited by Toy Soldier; 12-05-2017 at 01:01 PM. |
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12-05-2017, 02:35 PM | #72 | ||
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