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Originally Posted by Epic.

That's not the problem. The problem was that he kept giving her verbal abuse after she kept asking him to get out of her face and leave the room. She may have been aggressive, but he was the instigator

Well, based on what BB said in the DR, and what the edit chose to show, it was indeed the problem. Not a direct quote, but BB even said "especially women", or similar. They themselves made it a gendered issue.

I totally get why Lotan wanted to leave, he clearly got the correct impression that he was being painted as an abuser.

I don't care who instigated it tbh, I think there were as bad as each other in the actual argument.