[Vicky.]

Put quite simply, if sex did not matter...then everyone would be bi. But sex does matter, hence heterosexual, homosexual AND bi. I find this pretending that sexuality needs to be 'got over', that sex is not a real thing, or that strap ons are the same as real dicks...fairly offensive actually. As is the instance in a few places that its horrendous and bigotted if someone would not consider shagging a transperson...as if it a transwoman is exactly the same as a woman, and a transman is exactly the same as a man. Ignoring the fact that its NOT the same as scientists have not discovered how to do total body swaps yet.

I mean, we can pretend we think there is no difference, but its not true it is. Its 'nice' to pretend you cannot see a difference between India and the other women in there, to pretend that a person who spend 50 years as a man and now looks vaguely like a woman due to advances in plastic surgery and messing around with synthetic hormones, is the same as someone who is a biological woman, but its just lies.