[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Nicky91

let's have our discussion over pm, please Marsh

This is fighting talk. I'm telling.

[Nicky91]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

This is fighting talk. I'm telling.

so not interested in your crap rn

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Nicky91

so not interested in your crap rn

[RileyH]

Originally Posted by Nicky91

how fake this sweet behaviour coming from you, didn't know you were close friends with Ammi

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Nicky is starting a ruckus.

Originally Posted by Nicky91

let's have our discussion over pm, please Marsh

Originally Posted by Marsh.

This is fighting talk. I'm telling.

Originally Posted by Nicky91

so not interested in your crap rn

Originally Posted by Marsh.

[Kizzy]

I actually miss the days when I was ignored, I was the original 'thread killa' remember that Josy?
Now I seem almost impossible to ignore, it's a cross I have to bear.

[Lush]

I actually don't think this forum is as cliquey as some other forums I've been on.

When I first started posting here so many people messaged me to welcome me, which is something I've never really had on other places.

[Fetch The Bolt Cutters]

[Vicky.]

Also maybe worth thinking about, is to an outsider its fairly daunting to approach a group of people who know each other fairly well. So they may FEEL more ignored than they are. If that makes sense. Say the pst the make is something that generally would not ge a reply no matter who posted it, they may feel that its just because it was them, as they are already a bit...lets say nervous...about putting themselves out there.

This goes for all places on the forum, not just the chat threads.

Now, this is not the fault of the members involved. Its just one of those things. But this goes a little way of why newer members (and some older members) feel very ignored.

I tend to make more of an effort to reply to newbies threads...as even though it was a long time ago, I remember making threads and getting no replies while watching other threads on the same thing (or something similar) fill up instantly. Hell that shows how long ago this was doesn't it...when replies were hundreds in a few mins on season

[Rob!]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Also maybe worth thinking about, is to an outsider its fairly daunting to approach a group of people who know each other fairly well. So they may FEEL more ignored than they are. If that makes sense. Say the pst the make is something that generally would not ge a reply no matter who posted it, they may feel that its just because it was them, as they are already a bit...lets say nervous...about putting themselves out there.

This goes for all places on the forum, not just the chat threads.

Now, this is not the fault of the members involved. Its just one of those things. But this goes a little way of why newer members (and some older members) feel very ignored.

I tend to make more of an effort to reply to newbies threads...as even though it was a long time ago, I remember making threads and getting no replies while watching other threads on the same thing (or something similar) fill up instantly. Hell that shows how long ago this was doesn't it...when replies were hundreds in a few mins on season

All this is what I'm saying though - we all do it, we've all had it done to us. Its nothing to do with unwelcoming behaviour, it's just normal human interaction. Nothing to do with mean girls cliqueness.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Rob!

All this is what I'm saying though - we all do it, we've all had it done to us. Its nothing to do with unwelcoming behaviour, it's just normal human interaction. Nothing to do with mean girls cliqueness.

Again...clique does not necessarily mean mean girls type behavior :S

[Cal.]

Everybody loves me, well the odd bastard hates me but they're just wrong

[RileyH]

Marsh and Rob are the nastiest gals around

[Denver]

Originally Posted by RileyHollyoaks

Marsh and Rob are the nastiest gals around

But both go around acting innocent and that they are the best thing since sliced bread

[Rob!]

Originally Posted by Jordan.

http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/foru...postcount=1264

http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/foru...postcount=1271

I'm not even bothering.

Originally Posted by Adam.

But both go around acting innocent and that they are the best thing since sliced bread

[LukeB]

Originally Posted by Adam.

I get attacked a hell of a lot in the chat threads for no reason

Originally Posted by Josy

And you also attack others a hell of a lot for no reason Adam we arent stupid....

Originally Posted by Adam.

But both go around acting innocent and that they are the best thing since sliced bread

.

[Denver]

Originally Posted by LukeB

.

Jordan posted stuff about me being attacked so i commented so go back to your clique

[LukeB]

Originally Posted by Adam.

Jordan posted stuff about me being attacked so i commented so go back to your clique

i don't have a clique

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Adam.

But both go around acting innocent and that they are the best thing since sliced bread

You are OBSESSED with me.

[Cal.]

Sue I'll be your friend shug

[Cal.]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Don't worry Sue I'm old too

[Cal.]

Adam wtf is this

[Denver]

Originally Posted by Cal.

Adam wtf is this

The 4 greatest Civi housemates ever

[RileyH]

I don't understand all this tbh, what cliques are there suppose to be?

[Denver]

Actually lets just ignore them its better that way

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Adam.

Actually lets just ignore them its better that way

But 90% of your posts are about us.