[MrWong]

Originally Posted by GiRTh

My pursuit would end immediately because I’d have Craig and Anthony at the back of my mind and making such a fool of myself would definitely be on my mind.


I say unattainable because she’s straight and has a BF


Again, out of her league because she has a BF.

I think Shabby’s cant handle any kind of set back in life and her tears and tantrums back that up. I find her quite interesting but not at all likeable.

How do you know you wouldn't make a fool of yourself? You've never been locked up 24/7 with someone you really like. Also we don't know how Michelle and Craig behave in real life, maybe it was being in the house that made them act the way they did or maybe they are the way they looked on the TV. We'll never know.

Caoimhe said she's bi. Whether she has a b/f or not. She also said if she didn't have a b/f she'd go for it with Shabby.

[GiRTh]

How do I know I wouldnt make a fool of myself? Becasue unlike the Shabby's, Craigs and Michelle's of this world I understand the meaning of the words self-control and self-respect. Shabby is one big mess of emotions and tantrums. And she has the nerve to tell Ben to grow up. Interesting but certainly not likeable.

Even if Caomhe has said all those things the BF kind of trumps everything.

[WOMBAI]

Originally Posted by Seeing each other

I cannot help for the life of me ask if being Gay (when one is young) is the new rebellious Punk Rock and Roll. My Niece goes to college and is being put under pressure to believe she is "Gay", and it is NOW about finding who "ain't" Gay. It just seems to be the be the new "Trend" for very spoilt children to go down.

I say all that because SHABBY looks like she just being a spoilt brat and is all about outsmarting people and doing things to wind people up the wrong way. If someone sees this girl in 10-15 years and finds her living in a massive country house with her BANKER BONUS husband and 3 children talking about her rebellious "experimental days" do not be surprised.
How on earth someone can be in a house for a matter of days and cry on national TV for a straight girl is beyond me and drives me mad, then talks about her feelings that have to just be put down as insane, spoilt and uncontrollable at the end of the day. Shabby is nothing but a spoilt brat of and actress doing whatever the hell she pleases, and I have got her number.

Somehow I think that will apply to most of the so-called gay and bisexual teens on here! I do think a lot of it is about rebellion and experimentation.

[MrWong]

[QUOTE=GiRTh;3390771]How do I know I wouldnt make a fool of myself? Becasue unlike the Shabby's, Craigs and Michelle's of this world I understand the meaning of the words self-control and self-respect. Shabby is one big mess of emotions and tantrums. And she has the nerve to tell Ben to grow up. Interesting but certainly not likeable.

Even if Caomhe has said all those things the BF kind of trumps everything.[/QUOTE]

But you don't know how they act in the real world do you? Michelle and Craig could have been like that because of the enviroment they are in, emotions are heightened in that place. They may behave 'normally' outside of the house. You just don't know.

They might have self control, self respect outside of the house but being in the house totally messes up your head. Housemates say that all the time. They can act out of character. So as you've never been in that situation you'll never know in what way you'd act. You might act out of character too.

Also, i never said her b/f trumps everything. I said Caoimhe's giving out mixed signals, saying Shabby would be in with a shot if she was single, for example. That'll not help in ending things abruptly.

[MojoNixon]

[QUOTE=MrWong;3390822]

Originally Posted by GiRTh

How do I know I wouldnt make a fool of myself? Becasue unlike the Shabby's, Craigs and Michelle's of this world I understand the meaning of the words self-control and self-respect. Shabby is one big mess of emotions and tantrums. And she has the nerve to tell Ben to grow up. Interesting but certainly not likeable.

Even if Caomhe has said all those things the BF kind of trumps everything.[/QUOTE]

But you don't know how they act in the real world do you? Michelle and Craig could have been like that because of the enviroment they are in, emotions are heightened in that place. They may behave 'normally' outside of the house. You just don't know.

They might have self control, self respect outside of the house but being in the house totally messes up your head. Housemates say that all the time. They can act out of character. So as you've never been in that situation you'll never know in what way you'd act. You might act out of character too.

Also, i never said her b/f trumps everything. I said Caoimhe's giving out mixed signals, saying Shabby would be in with a shot if she was single, for example. That'll not help in ending things abruptly.

You gonna write a book?

[MrWong]

[QUOTE=MojoNixon;3390834]

Originally Posted by MrWong

You gonna write a book?

Ever read one?

Probably not if a few paragraphs offend you.

Try adding to the debate. It's a forum, shocking i know

[MojoNixon]

Originally Posted by MrWong

Ever read one?

Probably not if a few paragraphs offend you.

Try adding to the debate. It's a forum, shocking i know

Stories from the Thousand and One Nights?

[GiRTh]

Originally Posted by MrWong

But you don't know how they act in the real world do you? Michelle and Craig could have been like that because of the enviroment they are in, emotions are heightened in that place. They may behave 'normally' outside of the house. You just don't know.

Time has told us that both of those were pretty much being themselves in the house, especially Craig. Michelle got a bit of a bad edit but again she was being hersefl.

Originally Posted by MrWong

They might have self control, self respect outside of the house but being in the house totally messes up your head. Housemates say that all the time. They can act out of character. So as you've never been in that situation you'll never know in what way you'd act. You might act out of character too.

I think thats bollox and HMs's use it as an excuse for their poor behaviour. Most of the time I've seen HM's go to that one when prompted by an interviewer. Its very rare for a HM to use that excuse- and it is an excuse - by themselves.

Originally Posted by MrWong

Also, i never said her b/f trumps everything. I said Caoimhe's giving out mixed signals, saying Shabby would be in with a shot if she was single, for example. That'll not help in ending things abruptly.

As for mixed signals. They seem to have stopped now Shabby's declared her intentions. LEts see if Shabby reads the new signals.

[MrWong]

Originally Posted by GiRTh

Time has told us that both of those were pretty much being themselves in the house, especially Craig. Michelle got a bit of a bad edit but again she was being hersefl.


I think thats bollox and HMs's use it as an excuse for their poor behaviour. Most of the time I've seen HM's go to that one when prompted by an interviewer. Its very rare for a HM to use that excuse- and it is an excuse - by themselves.

As for mixed signals. They seem to have stopped now Shabby's declared her intentions. LEts see if Shabby reads the new signals.

Sorry but time can't tell you anything. Knowing them in person could though.
Then you'd know if they were behaving out of character or not.

It's not bollocks, didn't you ever watch the psychology show they used to have BB's Big Brain or whatever. Emotions in the house are magnified resulting in you acting out of character.

Yes as we arn't Mystic Meg, lets see...

[MojoNixon]

Originally Posted by MrWong

Sorry but time can't tell you anything. Knowing them in person could though.
Then you'd know if they were behaving out of character or not.

It's not bollocks, didn't you ever watch the psychology show they used to have BB's Big Brain or whatever. Emotions in the house are magnified resulting in you acting out of character.

Yes as we arn't Mystic Meg, lets see...

[GiRTh]

Originally Posted by MrWong

Sorry but time can't tell you anything. Knowing them in person could though.
Then you'd know if they were behaving out of character or not.

It's not bollocks, didn't you ever watch the psychology show they used to have BB's Big Brain or whatever. Emotions in the house are magnified resulting in you acting out of character.

Yes as we arn't Mystic Meg, lets see...

I can only go by how they come across on TV. Of course I've never met them and I wasn’t under the impression that I said I had met them, or do know them, but surely you can understand we can get an impression of how someone is based on their TV appearances? And given their TV appearance plus how they behaved on the show I can see a number of consistencies.

It is bollox. Without question, in my mind. Its amazing that the quieter characters never say that. It’s only the idiots who've made fool's on themselves. And they're usually prompted to say so by some interviewer.

[brian3]

Brett Anderson used to do this back in the early 90s. Even then it seemed tirsome. Now it's boring and annoying.

[DOG]

Gay is something your born as! Choice or trends have nothing to do with it. Some members of the gay community (and maybe some that aren't) may be in denial about it, but it is what it is.

[MojoNixon]

Come out from toilets you heteros! Be Proud To Be Hetero!

[DOG]

I'm hetero.

[MrWong]

Originally Posted by GiRTh

I can only go by how they come across on TV. Of course I've never met them and I wasn’t under the impression that I said I had met them, or do know them, but surely you can understand we can get an impression of how someone is based on their TV appearances? And given their TV appearance plus how they behaved on the show I can see a number of consistencies.

It is bollox. Without question, in my mind. Its amazing that the quieter characters never say that. It’s only the idiots who've made fool's on themselves. And they're usually prompted to say so by some interviewer.

You'd only know the consistencies if you know them in real life though. Michelle was a bit of a stalker in the house. Is she a stalker out of the house or is she more accepting of being given the brush off when there are plenty more fish in the sea.

It wasn't just the housemates giving that as a reason. Tt was the psychologists on Big Brain that did. Often explaining away the hm's behaviour being due, in part, to the pressure of being part of the show.

[Simone.]

I feel sorry for Shabby, I really do because I've been in that situation before & it's awfull. Especially considering they're in such a confined space there's just no where to get away.

I don't exactly like her, but I do feel bad.

[MojoNixon]

Originally Posted by Simone.

I feel sorry for Shabby, I really do because I've been in that situation before & it's awfull. Especially considering they're in such a confined space there's just no where to get away.

I don't exactly like her, but I do feel bad.

[Shaun]

Originally Posted by MojoNixon

What's so funny about that?

[MojoNixon]

Originally Posted by Shaun

What's so funny about that?

Stupidity.

[GiRTh]

Originally Posted by MrWong

You'd only know the consistencies if you know them in real life though. Michelle was a bit of a stalker in the house. Is she a stalker out of the house or is she more accepting of being given the brush off when there are plenty more fish in the sea.

As I said a few posts ago, I think Michelle got a bit of a bad edit. I don't think she's a stalker at all but we have seen evidence that when she wants something she goes for it.

Originally Posted by MrWong

It wasn't just the housemates giving that as a reason. Tt was the psychologists on Big Brain that did. Often explaining away the hm's behaviour being due, in part, to the pressure of being part of the show.

I watched that show and I agreed with some of it and I disagreed with other parts of it. Psychology is not an exact science and the psychologists are giving us their theoretical interpretation of the HM's feelings. I just don't buy that the house made Cesar(BB7) behave the way he did - as he said on BBLB while being very heavily prompted by Dermot. I don't believe that Lesley(BB6) was made to behave the way she did because of the pressure of being in the house. I believe on both those occasions, and many more ,they used that as an excuse.

[Niall]

Originally Posted by MojoNixon

Stupidity.

Explain please.

[coolestrock]

oooooooooooh shut that door

[MrWong]

Originally Posted by GiRTh

As I said a few posts ago, I think Michelle got a bit of a bad edit. I don't think she's a stalker at all but we have seen evidence that when she wants something she goes for it.

I watched that show and I agreed with some of it and I disagreed with other parts of it. Psychology is not an exact science and the psychologists are giving us their theoretical interpretation of the HM's feelings. I just don't buy that the house made Cesar(BB7) behave the way he did - as he said on BBLB while being very heavily prompted by Dermot. I don't believe that Lesley(BB6) was made to behave the way she did because of the pressure of being in the house. I believe on both those occasions, and many more ,they used that as an excuse.

I'd love to know their theoretical interpretation on the latest events.

http://www.channel4.com/bigbrother/a...4#dsq-comments

Shame they got rid of the show.

[PooBay]

Most women will try carpet munching at some point...and most will grow out of it. It's just a fad.