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Originally Posted by Raven
A big clue came early on "I'm not in here to make friends, its a game and I'm going to play it"
Passive agressive trick, the 'I'm the wronged party attitude and absolutely no accepting accountability for the actions = I've done nothing wrong and don't deserve anyone being upset with or angry at me
Of course he is, she was quite right to point out that his actions will effect his son... have you seen how nasty kids can be to each other? And if your going to take the effect on people on the outside into consideration it should be the child, adults can fend for themselves, back off or ignore unfair comments, a child often can not!
How dare she draw that to his attention, doesn't she know that he can't play his underhanded games if he has to take such things into account? His reaction to a very fair comment regarding caution in causing a negative effect on his child... was as if she'd accused him of being a bad father... victim card played in the responce!
We saw him 'admitting' (I don't believe it at all, it was part of his game) that he was attracted and that she was the best girl in there. The impression he gave was in agreement with her that doing anything whilst in there would be tacky... leaving her with the impression they would build the friendship toward something happening after BB
So her reaction was to the betrayal of that plus the betrayal of portraid principles as given what was said, she would have viewed what he did as tacky... add to that, the obvious disapointment when you realise you have been played for a mug... I fully understand her reaction
As for Tom... If when Tom was admitting to feeling jealous, aaron hadn't been leading him on he would have called him on it there and then... "Whoa dude, I've told you all along I'm straight!".... We have seen the in bed cuddles and nussling, aaron hasn't called tom on the claims of kissing the back of toms neck.... quite obviously the boy WAS led on by aaron, making him think he wasn't the only bi male in the house which would draw tom in... so yes again I can see where toms reaction comes from
Absolutely, aarons fans are being blinkered, according to them he can do no wrong.... yet they where all over rebeckahs game playing and hated her for it. a spacsavers comment isn't an insult, it is just pointing out that the person is not looking at what is right there in front of us!
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The way I see it, is Aaron went in there and said he was going to play the game. Fine most housemates declare this when they first enter the house. Not so many carry on playing the game in the same way they originally intended. We were reminded in last weeks 'Yes' task that Aaron is still playing the game. That I agree with.
This is where I have a different opinion on Aaron. He originally said he fancied Louise and then a few days later having spent more time with Faye he confessed to liking her (I think he said the most too) Faye reacted by getting closer to Aaron, but never did I see her say she fancied him.
He's teased and flirted with Tom and then later spoke in confidence that he had realised Tom has genuine feelings for him. Aaron doesn't really know the best way to deal with Tom. Fearing that Tom may feel very upset and turn against Aaron which Aaron didn't want. I got the impression Aaron cared for Tom and through fear of losing his friendship he chose the cowards way out and said nothing. I have never thought highly of Aaron where Tom is concerned. I think Aaron should have been straight with him from the start.
Time plods on and it's not looking like anything is going to happen between him and Faye. She's even said (after their dinner date) that she fancies Jay the most. Was Aaron ever told this from another housemate ? Did Aaron get vibes from Faye that nothing was ever going to happen between them ?
Along comes Maisy who herself has said she's feeling sexually frustrated. Things heat up between him and Maisy they kiss, this upsets Anton. Anton plants the seeds the following morning and then we have the full blow out between them all.
Aaron goes to the diary room, I never once got the impression he was playing the victim card. I thought he went in there saying 'What have I done...what have I done..? ...Oh I've made my bed I must now lay in it'.
He went on to admit that he is a coward, because Maisy was out there fighting on her own and there he was hiding in the diary room.
Aaron kissed a girl Tom and Faye went over the top bitching about him winding each other up more and more, then dragging the other housemates into their own drama.
It looked at one point that Aaron was trying to deal with it when he was apologising to Faye and instead of accepting his apology she threw his son into the conversation. Personally I think that was a cheap dig and was uncalled for. We can't say for sure, but maybe Aaron spoke about his son quite a lot when he was alone with Faye, her bringing his son into the drama was unfair, if it wasn't why didn't she speak of this when she was telling the others that he had a go at her?
As much as I can see him playing the game I don't think this incident is part of the game. I believe that Aaron (rightly or wrongly) has brought this upon himself and instead of tackling it he's chosen the cowardly way out. If he doesn't sort it out, my opinion of him may drop.
As for the blinkered comment, why can't it be that people have a difference of opinions rather than say they are blinkered?
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